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The Conscious Love Show

The Conscious Love Show

By: Shane Kohler
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Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane KohlerCopyright 2022 All rights reserved. Relationships Social Sciences Spirituality
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  • Your Attachment Style is a Lie: The truth about anxious women and avoidant men...
    Sep 24 2025

    Click here to take the quiz and learn your Relational Blueprint type

    If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring.

    We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant."

    Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath every avoidant man is someone who gets so anxious around intimacy, that he has to withdraw from it.

    Attachment theory gave us some important perspective but in this episode I want to honestly speak about the important things it doesn't address and introduce a new Blueprint system I've been developing that fills in the gaps where attachment theory fails.

    This one will be powerful. Enjoy!

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    56 mins
  • How to Heal the Subconscious Attraction to Avoidant Men
    Sep 17 2025

    Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied?

    She knows he’s pulling away.

    She knows it’s costing her peace.

    And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him.

    In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, but in a way that could shift how you see yourself, men, and love—forever.

    This isn’t about blame. It’s about freedom. By the end of this episode, you'll learn how to break the addiction and magnetize him back toward you.

    Whether you still want him or not, you'll be choosing now.

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • The Spiritual Nature of Attachment
    Sep 10 2025

    Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love Program

    We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away.

    But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns?

    What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper?

    In this episode, I take you beneath the surface of human love and longing to explore the hidden root of why we crave so much, hurt so deeply, and search so endlessly.

    It may not be what you expect.

    And if you’re open, it could change the way you see love forever.

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    1 hr and 10 mins
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