No one is more dramatic than a man who gets his advances rejected. We don’t mean to speak for every woman, but also… we’re pretty sure every single woman has either had an experience where a man lashed out at her for saying no, or she had to lie instead of saying no out of fear of backlash. We’ve heard men complain that they “can’t even approach women in public anymore” but we have no problem with being approached! The issue is that men just don’t seem to be able to take “no” for an answer. Our advice to men? Just be normal. Please, for the love of god, just be fucking normal.

Jill’s big move [1:54]

Long drives and nights in the hot tub [5:25]

No one is more emotional than a man who gets rejected [8:34]

When someone says no, walk away [15:35]

Saying yes out of fear of what comes after the no [17:33]

Just be normal [24:59]

It doesn’t have to be personal [29:37]

Just be a bitch [32:25]

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Break ups are hard enough as it is, but the longer you’re with someone, the more of a logistical mess it is to end your relationship. There are finances, housing, and even family members to consider as you separate your lives—but none of those are good reasons to stay if your heart is already telling you to go. We won’t lie to you, Bestie, it’s going to be hard. You just have to trust yourself to handle the hard stuff one day at a time, and know that you deserve happiness and peace… and sometimes the quickest way there is through the messy middle.

Why is everything so damn expensive? [2:04]

The logistics of a breakup [7:33]

Sometimes the most fair thing is to leave [10:15]

The first decision is the hardest [12:50]

You can’t predict the outcome [17:13]

A relationship is made up of two people [18:55]

The only thing you owe people is the truth [20:13]

Trust yourself to take it one step at a time [22:10]

You don’t have to make the decision right this second [27:23]

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Being in love is great and all, but the real benefit to being in a relationship is the opportunity to split costs. It’s ridiculously expensive just to be alive, which leaves single people unfairly disadvantaged—they have to take care of everything on their own. And it’s not just the financial burden you face when you’re single, there are social struggles, too. While everyone else has a person to celebrate the ups with and get support from during the downs, you have to ride the waves mostly on your own. We think it’s time to start sending a little more support to your single friends… and maybe a few hundred bucks, while you’re at it.

An awful first date [2:13]

Everything costs more when you’re single [8:28]

Making time to celebrate your people [12:34]

No where is left that’s affordable [14:21]

The older generations aren’t keeping up with the times [18:36]

Wanting to celebrate with someone [20:28]

You have to allow people to show up for you [24:16]

Thoughts on divorce registries [24:52]

Starting from scratch costs an arm and a leg [27:28]

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