Feeling overwhelmed by all the New Year pressure? Drowning in goals, resolutions, and "new year, best you" messaging? What if you only needed two things to guide your entire year?

January is loud. Everyone's telling you to set goals, build habits, transform your life. And maybe you want that. Or maybe you're exhausted just thinking about it.

This episode isn't about replacing your goals or resolutions - it's about giving you something foundational. Something that sits underneath everything else and makes it all more meaningful and sustainable. Whether you're energized for 2026 or honestly just trying to get through January, this framework will serve you.

Introducing: Your Flame and Your Fragrance.

This framework was inspired by a reel I came across from Dr. Zina Jacques, a pastor whose words on "spiritual scent" stopped me mid-scroll. It was shared by Viola Davis, and it sparked something that connected to my own practice of choosing a guiding word each year.

Your Flame is your internal guiding light - the word or quality you tend within yourself all year. Your Fragrance is what you leave with others - the feeling that lingers when you've left the room.

And here's the beautiful part: your Flame creates your Fragrance.

You're not alone if...

• You're overwhelmed by New Year pressure and expectations
• You don't know what you want for 2026 yet
• You're tired of setting goals that don't stick
• You want something deeper than resolutions
• You're wondering how to show up better for yourself AND others
• You need permission to still be figuring it out
• You want to start the year with intention, not pressure

⏱️ Chapters

00:00 - Welcome to 2026
01:44 - What this episode offers (it's foundational)
03:06 - Share this with someone who needs it
03:35 - The inspiration: Dr. Zina Jacques on spiritual scent
06:32 - Introducing Your Flame and Your Fragrance
07:06 - What is your Flame?
08:26 - What is your Fragrance?
09:26 - Your Flame creates your Fragrance
10:21 - Questions to discover yours
14:15 - My Flame for 2026: Becoming
15:58 - My Fragrance for 2026: Seen
17:59 - Your invitation for 2026
19:26 - Thank you for 2025
20:22 - Closing

💛 Share this episode with someone who needs a more intentional start to 2026.

This is an inside job. Share this episode with those you love. 💛

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