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That’s What I Meant To Say

That’s What I Meant To Say

By: James D. Newcomb
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This is a podcast for those who believe words still matter—words that shape us, steady us, and call us to something higher. Hosted by musician and scholar James D. Newcomb, this show explores the deeper currents beneath language, story, philosophy, and the human pursuit of meaning. Here you’ll find reflections, essays, and conversations that invite you to slow down, think deeply, and rediscover the wisdom woven into the world. https://www.jamesdnewcomb.com?utm_medium=podcast (www.jamesdnewcomb.com)James D. Newcomb Art Christianity Entertainment & Performing Arts Philosophy Social Sciences Spirituality
Episodes
  • In the Middle of Somewhere and Nowhere
    Mar 5 2026

    An innocent word between a driver and passenger leads to a reflection on the nebulous "middle" in which so much of our lives is formed.

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  • When the Truth Feels Like an Attack
    Jan 31 2026

    Why do people cling to beliefs even after they’ve been proven wrong? In this episode, we explore what happens in the mind when deeply held beliefs are challenged, why facts alone often fail to persuade, and how emotional investment shapes what we accept as true.

    Drawing on decades of psychological research, this conversation unpacks why corrections sometimes backfire, why empathy matters more than argument, and how curiosity can open doors that confrontation slams shut.

    If you’ve ever wondered why misinformation spreads so easily, or why difficult conversations go nowhere, this episode offers clarity—and a more hopeful way forward.

    Key Themes

    * Why the brain treats belief challenges like physical threats

    * How emotional reactions precede logical reasoning

    * Why more evidence can sometimes make beliefs stronger

    * The difference between explaining a belief and defending it

    * Why timing matters when correcting misinformation

    * How and why detailed corrections can unintentionally backfire

    * The “truth sandwich” method and why it works

    * Age, emotion, and susceptibility to misinformation

    * Motivational interviewing as an alternative to confrontation

    * Why empathy changes minds more effectively than argument

    * Winning relationships versus winning debates

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