Watching a show together sounds simple… until someone cheats ahead.

In this episode of That’s Not How You Do It, Ram and Anna break down the surprisingly serious rules people create around shared TV shows.

Is watching ahead betrayal?

Does falling asleep cancel your rights to the next episode?

And why do people treat shared shows like relationship contracts?

We explore:

• binge watching vs slow watching

• the psychology behind shared entertainment rituals

• the drama of spoilers

• and why TV loyalty feels weirdly personal.

Because sometimes the show isn’t the point.

Everyone has the chair.

The place where clothes go when they’re not quite dirty but not quite clean. The hoodie you might wear again. The jeans that are “still good.” The pile that slowly becomes… structural.

In this episode of That’s Not How You Do It, we unpack the psychology of the chair.

Is it a system… or procrastination?

We talk about:

• decision fatigue

• stress signals in our living spaces

• and why some people need visual order while others thrive in chaos.

If you’ve ever said “I’ll wear that again,” this episode is for you.

When you say "I'm on my way"... are you actually moving?

Or are you emotionally preparing to move?

In Episode 2 of That's Not How You Do It, we break down one of the most casually dishonest phrases in modern communication.

For some people, "On My Way" means engine on, wheels turning.

For others, it means shoes are nearby and optimism is high.

We dive into:

Literal time vs. intention time.

Cultural differences around punctuality

Is being late disrespectful or just human?

And what does your relationship with time say about your personaility?

If you've ever waited in the parking lot refreshing your texts...this episode is for you.

Is it better to clean as you cook...or deal with the destruction after the meal?

In our very first episode of That's Not How You Do It, we enter the most dangerous room in any relationship: the kitchen. Specifically - the sink!

One of us believes in rinsing immediately, wiping as we go, and protecting Future Me from suffering.

The other believes cooking is a sacred creative act and the mes is simply part of the process.

But this episode isn't really about dishes.

It's about:

Anxiety vs. Efficiency

Upbringing vs. Unspoken Rule

Are you Team Clean-As-You-Go?

Or Team End-of-the-Night Warrior?