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Teaching Kids to Process Disappointment the Right Way | V120

Teaching Kids to Process Disappointment the Right Way | V120

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In Episode 120 of High Performance Parenting, Jacquie Francis and her daughter Crissy share a real-life conversation about processing disappointment after a tough sports experience.


They unpack:

  • Why kids often hold in emotions instead of asking for help
  • How to know when to process alone vs when to seek support
  • The emotional weight of competition and pressure
  • Why life — and sports — are not always fair
  • How family support helps build resilience and confidence
  • Why losing is part of growth and long-term success

Crissy shares her perspective on losing a close match, feeling frustrated, and learning how to process those emotions in a healthy way.

One of the biggest takeaways:

👉 You won’t always win — but you can always grow.

(00:00) Processing Loss and Disappointment

(01:30) When Kids Hold in Emotions

(03:32) Understanding Pressure in Sports

(05:45) Handling Unfair Situations

(07:27) Learning From a Tough Match

(09:26) Processing Emotions With Family

(11:01) Why Kids Avoid Asking for Help

(12:32) The Importance of Perspective

(14:16) You Won’t Always Win

(15:28) Building Mental Toughness Through Loss

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