Every leader takes hits—but maturity is learning which ones to absorb and which ones to address. In this episode of Student of Life, we look at how Jesus modeled restraint and discernment under pressure. Sometimes He took the hit and moved on. Other times, He spoke up and confronted what needed to change. True leadership isn’t about avoiding conflict—it’s about knowing when to take the lick and when to take a stand.

Student of Life Guide: “Taking Licks: The Maturity of Leadership”

Key Idea: Mature leadership is knowing when to absorb a hit and when to take a stand. Jesus showed that true strength isn’t found in reacting—it’s found in responding with wisdom and restraint.

3 Big Insights

• You can’t lead without taking hits. Leadership invites misunderstanding, but maturity guards your response.

• Discernment is key. Jesus knew when to endure and when to confront. Both required courage.

• Maturity chooses purpose over pride. Every reaction reveals who’s really in control—you or your emotions.

Reflection Questions

1. What “lick” am I still carrying that God might be using to mature me?

2. How do I decide when to confront vs. when to move on?

3. What does it look like to respond in the Spirit instead of reacting in the flesh?

Application (Next Step)

• This week, when criticism or conflict hits, pause and ask: “Is this something I need to absorb or address?”

• Journal your decision and what it revealed about your maturity.

Anchor Thought“Jesus didn’t take every hit personally—He took it purposefully.”