What if biblical counseling actually led to healing instead of shame? 👀 In this candid convo, worship leader–turned–biblical counselor Adam Westlake (The Worship Initiative, Shane & Shane) joins Tabitha to unpack why much “sin-detective” counseling harms survivors—and what compassionate, trauma-informed, theologically rooted care really looks like.

We get into:

• Why story work > quick fixes (Colossians 3/Ephesians 5 vibes)
• Guilt vs. shame and how spiritual bypassing wounds survivors
• Porn/affair recovery through curiosity (shoutout Jay Stringer)
• Contemplative prayer and embodied healing for anxious, high-achievers
• How survivors of domestic abuse & coercive control can find faith-safe help
• “Participation in the life of the Trinity” vs. white-knuckle sanctification

If you’ve ever been told to “just stop sinning,” this one’s for you.

Resources:

Adam Westlake - https://www.adamwestlakecounseling.com/

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 This book is for every Christian woman who has been harmed sexually, whether that happened in childhood, adulthood, or even within your coercive controlling marriage, and you're longing to feel safe in your body again. We talk about the hard stuff, shame, desire, faith, and even questions like, is this sin or is this trauma?

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