When we use the word spiritual, what do we actually mean?
Is it religious? Secular? Personal? Universal?
In recovery, this question matters. Because how you define spirituality will shape how you practice it.
In this episode, Chris explores the meaning of spirituality through the lenses of Buddhism and the Twelve Steps.
In this episode, Chris explores:
• The root meaning of the word “spirit” as breath
• How Buddhism defines spirituality as a path of awakening
• How the Twelve Steps frame spirituality as transformation
• Why spirituality may be best understood as love
This episode is for you if:
• You struggle with the word “God” in recovery
• You feel unsure how to define spirituality for yourself
• You want a path that is spiritual but not rigidly religious
The Invitation
The Latin root of spirit means breath. A living force flowing in us, through us, and around us.
Buddhism describes spirituality as a path of practice leading to insight into the true nature of reality. Through meditation and awareness, we cultivate kindness and wisdom and gradually loosen the grip of ego.
The Twelve Steps describe spirituality as a transformation. A spiritual awakening is the moment we become able to do, feel, and believe what we could not do alone. It is the discovery of a strength beyond our isolated self.
Across both paths, a common thread emerges. We move out of self-centeredness and toward connection. Toward service. Toward love.
Spirituality may not be about doctrine. It may be about becoming capable of loving more fully.
Featured Practice
Take a few quiet breaths.
- Inhale slowly and notice the breath moving through you.
- Ask yourself: “What does spirituality mean to me?”
- Notice any resistance, clarity, or curiosity that arises.
There is no correct definition. Let your experience teach you.
Journal Prompt
“How do I define spirituality today, and how does that definition shape my recovery?”
Write without trying to sound spiritual. Write honestly.
Key Reflection
“Maybe there are as many definitions of spiritual awakening as there are people who have had them.”
Chris McDuffie is a licensed psychotherapist, mindfulness teacher and sober coach in private practice. He is the CEO and lead therapist for Chris McDuffie Counseling, a leading concierge practice caring for mental and behavioral health needs. He lives in Carlsbad, California, and holds a Master of Social Work from Fordham University. He teaches recovery from addiction and co-occurring disorders through the spiritual practices of Buddhism and the 12 Steps.
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You don’t have to walk this path alone.