In this episode, we talk about:

>> The exquisite agony of yearning for your best friend for years

>> Queerness, demisexuality, and discovering love outside traditional dating norms

>> What happens when your carefully curated independent life collides with unexpected soulmate-level love

Jillian and Brenna's love story includes board game meetups, tarot readings, COVID bubble companionship, and perhaps the most adorably unhinged real estate decision in soulmate history. What began as an instant friendship evolved into years of emotional intimacy, accidental pseudo-dating, and enough mutual yearning to fuel a queer hockey romance series. Along the way, Jillian was navigating her evolving understanding of her sexuality, while both women wrestled with an enormous question: what happens when the person you love most could either become your partner, or your greatest heartbreak?

In this conversation, Jillian and Brenna share how friendship, longing, and a perfectly timed romantic leap transformed their lives. Sometimes, soulmate love shows up as your board game friend, your pandemic bubble, and eventually, your wife next door.

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

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AD >> This episode's community-powered ad spot goes to Lauren DeCristofaro, AKA Married by LB. Lauren is a wedding officiant who strives to provide deeply personal, heartfelt ceremonies that really focus on the couple and their story by centering connection, intention, meaning, and joy. Married by LB is based on the East Coast and offers officiant services, ceremony writing, and officiant coaching in New England and beyond. She's still taking 2026 clients, and her books are wide open for 2027. So if you're an East Coast lover and looking for a wedding officiant, pounce on LB! I mean it! Reach out at www.marriedbylb.com or on Instagram @marriedbylb.

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Anna didn't used to believe in ghosts. At least, not really. Until she brought her girlfriend to her old family cabin. Now, let's just say, she's a believer.

Join Anna and Grace for this season's "Just Between Us" episode where we talk all about Anna's first real supernatural encounter, the moment in Italy when Grace screamed "God, give me a sign!!!" and God literally delivered, and the daily practices we use to stay connected to the mysterious unseen forces in our lives.

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

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Big gratitude to Micaela Blei and the whole What Matters team, whose storytelling guidance made this story a whole lot better than the first hundred times I (Anna) told it.

AD >> Today's community powered ad spot goes to me, Anna! I am PSYCHED to announce that I have formally launched the newest branch of Soco & Co: LOVE SCHOOL. Love School is a home for classes and events that help our community learn how to love well, together. Our very first offering is our Virtual Vow Writing Workshop Series, taught by ME! If you're getting married this summer, this one's for you.

Participants will share how they're feeling about the process, learn strategies for customizing the vows portion of the ceremony, and have plenty of time to write.

The classes are scheduled for Sunday April 26/26, Thursday May 21/26, and Wednesday July 29/26. Tickets are offered on a sliding scale from $25 to $45 and include my signature vow writing guide. Grab your tickets here!

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In this episode we talk about:

>> How to make it to the other side of grief with your partner

>> Experiencing love as a knowing

>> Rediscovering yourself, again and again

They never even went on a date. When Amy and Luna met, they were living full, separate lives with careers, partners and identities already in place. Eventually, they weren't even in the same state. But through a series of quiet check-ins, moments of care, and one profound shared loss, something began to take hold that neither of them could name. Their story is one of dismantling and rebuilding – through financial collapse, illness and grief. In this conversation, we learn what it looks like to keep returning to each other while everything else is changing. At a time when so many of us are being asked to reimagine our lives in the midst of upheaval, their story offers answers to the question of how to begin again without losing yourself in the process.

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

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Find Luna's writing at her website, LunaJaffe.com – that's J A F F E – including her latest book, Look Mom I Can Fly: Notes From The Wide Skies of Grieving My Only Child. She's also got tons of links to resources on navigating grief and loss.

Explore Amy's medicine work and facilitation at her forthcoming website, thewayknows.com.

AD: Whether you're trying to take a peek into the future, gather some encouragement, or just see what the universe has to say to you, Juno is the real deal! You can find her at the Sapphire Hotel and get a tarot reading along with a witchy cocktail every wednesday from 4-7pm during the month of April, or, to dive deeper into your natal chart, you can find her and book a reading on her Instagram @jmviolet.

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This episode's edit was by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media).

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In this episode we talk about:

>> What happens when your romantic partner is also your business partner

>> Navigating money, stress, and conflict when your lives are completely intertwined

>> The powerful boundary that keeps love at the center of a working relationship

When Polly and Oliver started their business, they had a problem: two passionate, perfectionist designers trying to do everything at once. They were stepping on each other's toes, working on the same tasks from different angles, and realizing that loving each other didn't automatically mean they knew how to work together. That moment forced them to slow down and ask a bigger question: how do you build something creatively ambitious together without putting your relationship at risk?

In part two of their story, Polly and Oliver share what they've learned about blending partnership and entrepreneurship. From playful tools like switching "hats" to honest conversations about money, stress, and boundaries, they get super honest about the inner work required to make a blended work/personal life run smoothly. They also bless us with an incredible number of practical strategies (we're not worthy!!) for keeping our relationships at the center of our collaborations, and inspiration for remembering why that's so important in the first place.

>> This episode is our second of two interviews with Polly and Oliver. If you haven't listened to part one, get on that!

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

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Complete Taryn's interest form to be in her "Mother" coffee table book.

Find Polly and Oliver at unlockcollective.co and instagram.com/unlockcollective. Hire them!

Polly and Oliver's business coach is Dana Corey. You can find her at danacorey.com.

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We released this episode on Valentine's Day on purpose because it captures love at its most honest. Cameron spent her life chasing a dream job in marine mammal care, only to realize that achieving it was taking a serious toll on her health. As she worked to untangle her identity from her work, a new dog tippy-tapped into her life and became an unlikely anchor, offering presence, steadiness, and a kind of support she had never expected or experienced.

Cameron reflects on being understood without words, what animals can teach us about care and communication, and why some of the most sustaining relationships in our lives might cross species. If you've ever loved an animal like family, this one's for you.

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

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Connect with Cameron and Pom at @pawsandrelaxwithcameron, @camddawg, and @pomelaanderson_bythebay.

If you live near Monterey, California, head to Peace of Mind Dog Rescue to find your own doggy soulmate.

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Meet the couples you'll be hearing from on season two of Something About Soulmates:

• Two best friends and next-door neighbors who didn't know they were yearning for each other for years
• An animal behavior expert whose job was slowly crushing her, and whose Pomeranian brings more to the table than any boyfriend ever has
• Two women who found each other later in life, and never once questioned that this partnership was their path to healing
• A couple who tried non-monogamy, chose monogamy (for now), and believe their past is exactly what makes their relationship work

Y'all, there is GOOD STUFF coming. The first episode of season two drops February 14th! See you there.

Is it just us or does the world really need to hear some love stories right now? Don't worry, we're on it. Welcome to season two! Our first full episode is dropping Feb. 14, but in the meantime, we're sharing clips from our upcoming interviews and introducing you to the all-star lovers of season two.

These lovers are trainers of Navy seals (ahem, we mean sea lions), business partners, mothers, best friends, and motorcyclists. One of them has four legs. And all of them have taught us something new about what it means to be and be loved by a soulmate.

We missed you! We are so glad to be back!

More About Your Hosts:

Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.

Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.

Additional Links:

ADVERTISE WITH US >> Let us hype you up! Human-written, affordable, community powered ad spots to help us cover three months of our production costs. Click HERE to advertise with us!

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BE ON OUR SHOW >> Do you know a little something about soulmates? We'd love to host you on our show. Click here to learn more and sign up.

This episode's edit was by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media).

The art for our show was created by Gay Ghost Design.

Music for this episode by Epidemic Sound.

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