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This episode is part of a series where we answer your questions.

Today's question:"How do you teach nervous system regulation and trauma therapy to men who don't do 'woo woo?' How do you teach this stuff to guys who don't even know they're anxious?"In this episode, we explore teaching nervous system regulation and trauma therapy to people - not just men - as this work is not gender specific. We discuss the misinterpretation of 'Woo Woo' and how that does not translate into the emotional and nervous system work being taught here. We dive into cultural perceptions of emotional intelligence, and personal experiences with anxiety.

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Today's question:

"I've been trying to date again after some major heartbreak, and I keep catching myself assuming people will leave me, ghost me, or betray me. What's the line between intuition and projection? Can you talk about trust after betrayal?"

In our conversation this week, we explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on heartbreak, trust, and the distinction between intuition and projection. We discuss the importance of trust in oneself, healing, and emphasizing the need to understand our own patterns and behaviors in relationships.

We discuss:

- Heartbreak is a profound experience that often leads to self-reflection.

- Trust is something that must be earned, both from others and oneself.

- Rebuilding trust with oneself is crucial after experiencing betrayal.

- Understanding the difference between intuition and projection can aid in navigating relationships.

- Communication is key in addressing fears and assumptions in new relationships.

- Self-trust is essential for making healthy choices in relationships.

- Projection can often stem from past experiences and unresolved issues.

- It's important to recognize when one is abandoning themselves in relationships.

- Healing from heartbreak involves acknowledging and processing grief.

- Practicing self-compassion is vital in the journey of recovery from emotional pain.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Touches

05:05 Navigating Heartbreak and Trust Issues

10:23 Understanding Projection vs. Intuition

15:45 The Complexity of New Relationships

20:45 Self-Compassion and Healing After Betrayal

26:14 The Importance of Relational Skills

31:39 Closing Thoughts and Reflections

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This episode is part of a series where we answer your questions.

Today's question:

"I'm 58 years old, and I'm definitely grieving my life right now. It's like I'm slowly watching the version of life I thoughts I was supposed to have...disappear. Can you talk about identity transitions in midlife? I would love to hear your take on how to sit with that kind of grief."

Our conversation this week explores themes of grief, reflection, and the importance of living in the present moment.

We discuss:

- Are you metabolizing the grief?

- Reflecting too much can be a drag.

- Living in the present... with compassion, is essential.

- Emotional processing is crucial for healing.

- Grief requires active engagement and reflection.

- Finding peace in the present moment is vital.

Is something in you is waking up and you're ready for deeper work, step through at loramccarville.com

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