In this powerful episode of Sit Down, Be Present, I sit down with Eddie Saunsoci to have a deeply honest conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, and the complexities of relationships. Eddie shares his personal journey of unlearning harmful narratives around manhood, embracing emotional openness, and redefining strength in a way that fosters deeper connections.

Together, we explore: 🔹 The cultural and societal expectations placed on men—and how they shape relationships 🔹 The power of vulnerability in fostering emotional intimacy 🔹 Breaking generational cycles and creating space for healthier expressions of masculinity 🔹 What it truly means to lead with presence in relationships

This episode is for anyone—men, women, and leaders—who want to better understand the role of vulnerability in creating meaningful connections. If you’ve ever struggled with navigating emotions, communication, or expectations in relationships, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss.

#Masculinity #Vulnerability #Relationships #Healing #PresenceDrivenLeadership #SitDownBePresent

"If you want to get a story, you've got to give a story."

In this thought-provoking episode of Sit Down, Be Present, Marcus Strother, President and CEO of MENTOR California, dives deep into the transformative power of vulnerability, mentorship, and asking for help—through the unique lens of the male experience. With over two decades of experience in public education and youth advocacy, Marcus shares how his philosophy of reciprocal vulnerability has shaped his journey as a leader and mentor.

Marcus’s quote underscores the importance of reciprocal vulnerability: the idea that trust and connection are built when we’re willing to be open and authentic with others. Together, we explore how the courage to give a piece of your story invites others to do the same, creating space for deeper understanding and empowerment. Through his stories and insights, Marcus highlights how vulnerability is not a weakness but a bridge that fosters trust, empowers others, and strengthens mentorship relationships.

This episode connects the dots between vulnerability, mentorship, and leadership, challenging us to rethink what it means to be present in our relationships and professional lives. Whether you’re a mentor, a leader, or someone striving to deepen your connections, Marcus’s wisdom will inspire you to embrace authenticity, share your story, and empower others to do the same.

Are you exhausted from always trying to save the day, fix every problem, and be everything to everyone? In this episode, I’m joined by Lydia Turner—Certified Life Coach, Trauma-Informed Leader, and Community Activist—to explore the concept of saviorism and what we affectionately call Captain SAVE A Hoe Syndrome. This mindset, where your worth feels tied to rescuing others, leaves us drained, disconnected, and far from our authentic selves.

Together, we’ll unpack the lessons from Day 2 of my book, With You in Mind: Releasing Saviorism, diving deep into why so many of us take on the role of "rescuer." Lydia brings her expertise in trauma-informed practices to illuminate how this syndrome often stems from unresolved wounds, a need for control, or a desire to feel valued.

In this heartfelt and empowering conversation, we’ll challenge the narrative that you must fix others to be worthy and embrace a new truth: saving yourself is the most powerful act of love. With practical strategies and Lydia’s expert guidance, you’ll learn how to step out of the rescuer role and step into a life where your worth isn’t tied to how much you give, but to how fully you can simply be.

Key Takeaways:

• Insights from Lydia Turner on how Captain SAVE A Hoe Syndrome impacts your emotional and spiritual well-being.
• What saviorism is and how it shows up in our lives.
• How letting go of the "fixer" role can create space for self-healing and growth.
• Simple steps to release the need to save others and reconnect with your purpose.

It’s time to take off the cape, let go of the need to save everyone else, and focus on saving yourself. You deserve to be whole, rested, and free.