For decades, women were told to fear hormone therapy. Much of that fear stemmed from the highly publicized Women's Health Initiative Study (WHI), a study that dramatically changed the conversation around menopause and hormone therapy in the early 2000s. Headlines spread quickly. Hormones became the villain. And millions of women were left confused, unsupported, and often suffering through symptoms without answers. But today, the conversation is changing. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. LaKeischa - creator of The Apology Tour, to unpack what really happened after the WHI study, why fear took over the narrative, and why the recent **U.S. Food and Drug Administration decision to remove the black box warning from certain estrogen products is such a major moment for women’s health. This conversation is about more than hormones. It’s about correcting misinformation, empowering women with facts, and rewriting the story of **menopause and **perimenopause for the next generation. If you’ve ever wondered whether the information women received about hormones was incomplete—or simply wrong—this episode will open your eyes.

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Today’s episode is a little more personal. I want to talk about something I’m walking through in real time:
what it feels like when life is pushing you into a change you did not choose, and how that connects to our health and wellness after 45. Right now, I’m facing a situation that may force us to move.
I’m not talking about a fun, “let’s try a new city” kind of move.
I’m talking about the kind of move that shows up uninvited.
The kind of move where you’re not ready, you’re not willing, and honestly, you’re still grieving the idea of leaving what you’ve built and what you love. And that feeling has made me think a lot about wellness. Because starting a wellness or fitness journey when you choose it is hard enough.
But trying to change when you feel forced, when your back is against the wall, when your circumstances are saying,
“You don’t have a say in this anymore”…
that is a different kind of hard. It’s like the difference between saying,
“I want to clean out my house this weekend,”
and getting a phone call that says,
“You have 30 days to pack up your life.” One is intentional.
The other feels like survival. For so many of us in midlife that’s exactly how our health journey has played out. We coast along. We’re “fine.” We’re busy. We tell ourselves we’ll get serious later.
Then suddenly, there’s a diagnosis. A warning. A number on a chart.
And just like being told you might have to move, your sense of control shrinks. Now, instead of choosing wellness, it feels like wellness is being demanded of you.
Not as an invitation, but as a condition:
“Do this, or else.” So in this episode, I want to unpack: * What it feels like to be pushed into change before your heart has caught up * How my own situation with a possible move is mirroring that feeling of being forced into a new chapter * And why having a choice in your wellness, while you still can, is so much kinder than waiting until life or your body gives you an ultimatum I’m not coming to you today as someone who has it all figured out.
I’m coming as a woman over 45 who is sitting with uncertainty, with resistance, with that quiet little voice that says,
“I don’t want this. I’m not ready for this. Why now?” And I want to gently turn that into a different question:
If being forced into change feels this heavy,
what would it look like to start choosing more of our changes while we still have the option? Let’s talk about it.

This episode is personal. We’re talking about stolen valor — the real damage caused when someone claims combat they never saw, medals they didn’t earn, or deployments they didn’t endure. But we’re also talking about something that doesn’t get enough attention: women who actually served. Women who deployed. Women who led. Women who sacrificed. Women who are still told, “You don’t look like a veteran.” In this powerful conversation, I share what happened when a guest on Sisters-in-Service misrepresented her service — and why I chose to lead with trust. We unpack the hidden cost of military life, the exhaustion of being questioned by civilians who’ve never worn a uniform, and the double standard women veterans face in rooms where they’re mistaken for spouses instead of service members. This isn’t about outrage. It’s about standards. It’s about integrity. Because honor isn’t borrowed. And service isn’t a costume. If you’re a woman veteran who has ever been questioned, minimized, or made invisible — this one is for you.