In this episode of Simple Healthy Life, we sit down with Gary Watson, a longtime friend with a story that spans addiction, recovery, reinvention, and an unexpected new chapter: opening a collectibles and trading card shop built around community.

Gary shares how he went from early substance use and heroin addiction to nearly 20 years of sobriety, and the pivotal moment when he chose a different path. We talk about what it means to feel again after years of numbing, why many people cope before emotions even show up (scrolling, drinking, overeating, avoidance), and how real growth often comes from learning to sit with discomfort rather than running from it.

From there, the conversation turns to passion and purpose. Gary explains the vision behind his shop, On The Level Collectors: a welcoming space for Pokémon, Magic: The Gathering, One Piece, and more, where people can play, trade, hang out, and reconnect face-to-face. We explore why hobbies can be more than entertainment, they can be a lifeline, a social anchor, and a healthier outlet for stress.

If you are rebuilding your life, searching for direction, or trying to move from “avoiding” to actually engaging with life, this episode delivers real talk, hard-earned perspective, and a surprising amount of hope.

In this episode of the Simple Healthy Life podcast, we sit down with MJ's longtime coach, mentor, and friend, Ross Ickes, who was recently inducted into the National Wrestling Hall of Fame. But this conversation is not about trophies, records, or accolades. It is about what happens to people when they are pushed, supported, challenged, and believed in over time.

We talk about wrestling as one of the most demanding sports there is and why its difficulty is precisely what makes it such a powerful teacher. From discipline and accountability to humility, effort, and resilience, wrestling offers lessons that extend far beyond the mat. We explore how great coaching is not about yelling, control, or ego, but about creating an environment where people feel safe enough to struggle and strong enough to grow.

This episode also dives into mentorship, identity, and long-term impact. We discuss why some coaches are remembered decades later, how leadership shows up in small moments like rides to practice or help with homework, and why success should be measured by the quality of people you help shape, not just the number of matches you win.

Whether you are an athlete, parent, coach, or someone interested in personal development, this conversation is a reminder that the hardest paths often create the strongest foundations and that real influence compounds quietly over time.

What if the biggest thing shaping your personality is not who you are, but what you identify with?

In this episode, we break down personal reality through a simple but powerful lens: thoughts, feelings, and actions. Any one of these can become the “driver” of your day, and the outcome is often the same - other people only see your behavior, then react to you, and suddenly your internal state becomes a social chain reaction.

We explore why thoughts can feel intensely personal even when they are automatic, why feelings hijack decision-making, and why actions may reveal far more about your character than your internal monologue ever could. Along the way, we unpack identity in an identity-forward culture, including the subtle problem of “identifying as the tool” - when your role (business owner, athlete, parent, dietitian) becomes your self-worth and makes you fragile.

We also discuss Ram Dass’s concept of “loving awareness,” how it offers a more antifragile identity, and what it looks like in real life when ego gets threatened: avoidance, isolation, reactivity, or shutting down. Through a real example of a business setback and the urge to hide it, we examine how ego and shame distort behavior, and how exposure to discomfort (like training, failure, and feedback) can build emotional tolerance and a more intentional response.