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Ever catch yourself thinking I moved the shoes yesterday, so it’s your turn—then feeling that quiet sting when no one notices? We dig into the “silent scorecard,” the running tally of invisible labor and unspoken expectations that can turn midlife into a slow burn of resentment. From caregiving in the sandwich generation to being the office’s emotional glue, we share why resentment is a signal, not a moral failure, and how to trade scorekeeping for clarity, capacity, and consent.

We walk through the traps of competence—how being reliable gets you more work by default—and show simple ways to interrupt that pattern with honest agreements. You’ll hear real stories about money friction, household help, and the tiny critiques that erode appreciation at home. We offer self-coaching prompts you can use today: What do I wish someone would do that I’ve never asked for? What am I hoping they’ll just notice? Then we model language for renegotiating roles without “receipts,” and explain why speaking in the present tense from capacity beats martyrdom every time.

Along the way, we talk about guarding your heart without building walls, making the invisible visible, and using gentle, specific asks to align on what truly matters right now. You’ll leave with homework for a one-week irritations audit, a journaling practice to spot triggers, and concise scripts to reset expectations at home and at work. Plus, we share affirmations to anchor the shift—clearer is kinder than resentment—and a brief Black History Month reflection on names, roots, and identity.

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