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#SiblingsToo - Exploring the impacts of sibling sexual abuse

#SiblingsToo - Exploring the impacts of sibling sexual abuse

By: Nancy Morris
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 Welcome to SiblingsToo, the podcast about Sibling Sexual Abuse, the hidden taboo, hidden in society and in families. Sibling Sexual Abuse is thought to affect as many as 1 in 5 families. Your Host is Nancy Morris, a psychology researcher and sibling sexual abuse survivor, #SiblingsToo creates a voice for sibling sexual abuse and brings research and information to surivors and their families.(c) 2024 Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • Ep.62 Exciting Changes Ahead for SiblingsToo in 2026

    Ep.62 Exciting Changes Ahead for SiblingsToo in 2026
    Oct 23 2025

    In this update episode, Nancy Morris returns to share some of the achievements and ongoing projects "SiblingsToo" is involved in as of October 2025. Having taken some personal time over the summer, Nancy re-engages with her audience to outline upcoming plans and the dynamic work being done both behind the scenes and in the public sphere. The conversation delves into the importance of raising awareness about sibling sexual behavior and abuse (SSBA) and the steps being taken to ensure this significant topic remains in the public eye.

    Nancy discusses her recent promotion of SSBA on "An Hour to Give," a local television show in Ottawa, Canada, and elaborates on the powerful results achieved through community support and fundraising. She highlights her strategic use of newly acquired media assets, which will enable the launch of multi-platform content designed to expand SSBA outreach. Additionally, Nancy outlines her involvement with Ottawa Victim Services and Counseling and Family Services Ottawa in organizing a comprehensive webinar series, aimed at providing specialized guidance to professionals and the affected public, reflecting an unwavering commitment to systemic change. In the latter section of this episode, Nancy also updates the audience on a research project in the UK that will be using many of the anonymous stories so many generous podcast listeners have shared via the story portal at [SiblingsToo.com](http://SiblingsToo.com) (currently the portal is closed - may reopen in 2026).

    Chapters

    0:00 - What's been happening - The "job", TV interview etc
    4:32 - Webinars on Sibling Sexual Behavior and Abuse
    7:42 - Sibling Sexual Abuse Awareness and Language Evolution
    12:20 - Advancing Conversations on Sibling Sexual Abuse and Prevention
    20:39 - Ooops, I forgot - Lived Experience Narratives Fuel New UK Research

    Key Takeaways:

    * Nancy Morris is dedicated to ensuring that the topic of sibling sexual behavior and abuse (SSBA) remains an integral part of public discourse. Through television interviews, podcasts, research projects, and webinars, she seeks to educate and engage a broad audience.
    * The "SiblingsToo" project will be incorporating video content, increasing accessibility and engagement across platforms like YouTube, in addition to traditional podcast formats.
    * A shift in language to "sibling sexual behavior and abuse" (SSBA) aims to encompass a broader spectrum of behaviors, fostering a more comprehensive understanding and dialogue around the subject.
    * Upcoming podcasts will focus on hopeful discussions for future preventative measures and interventions for SSBA, moving beyond mere awareness to actionable change.
    * Nancy emphasizes the public health approach to SSBA, advocating for nuanced understanding of all involved, including the person who caused harm, to foster healing and policy development.

    Notable Quotes:

    1. "One of my goals was to be a part of the drive of awareness that makes the genie so fat she can't get back in the bottle."
    2. "Enough of the awareness. The awareness will come as we start to talk about the solutions."
    3. "In that controversy is the opportunity of growth and understanding."
    4. "It's about hope for the future by understanding all the people who are impacted by sibling sexual behavior and abuse."


    Resources:

    * Nancy Morris email contact for feedback: siblingstoomailbox@gmail.com
    * "An Hour to Give" TV show, hosted by Sam Laprade
    * For more on the webinar series, go to www.SiblingsToo.com
    * Computer-generated transcript
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    23 mins
  • Ep.61 | TV's Most Taboo Topic – SSA in White Lotus, Hollyoaks, and Why It Matters

    Ep.61 | TV's Most Taboo Topic – SSA in White Lotus, Hollyoaks, and Why It Matters
    Apr 17 2025
    In this probing episode of the #SiblingsToo podcast, host Nancy Morris explores the challenges of representing sibling sexual abuse (SSA) in television programs, joined by experts and survivors Brinn Langdale, Diane Tarantini, and Tanith McCulloch. Against the backdrop of media representations like HBO's White Lotus and the UK's Hollyoaks, they navigate the multifaceted conversations surrounding SSA and highlight the urgency for responsible and informed storytelling. The episode critiques the portrayal of sibling sexual behavior in popular media, emphasizing the importance of accuracy, sensitivity, and comprehensive research in storytelling. Drawing on experiences with Hollyoaks and its reflective storytelling approach, the guests discuss how programs can shed light on the realities of SSA without resorting to sensationalism. Central themes include the societal need to recognize the prevalence of sibling sexual abuse and the vital role of resources and compassionate narratives in media. Engaging in this sensitive dialogue, they call for narratives that not only entertain but educate and provide pathways to healing and understanding for audiences worldwide. Guest bios: Brinn Langdale is a sibling sexual abuse survivor, a licensed therapist, writer, speaker, and host of the Wholistic Approach to Healing podcast. She's also the founder of Wholistic Approach, a transformational coaching program focused on healing the whole you. www.brinnlangdale.com Diane Tarantini is a sibling sexual abuse survivor based in Morgantown, West Virginia. She is an accomplished author, having written a children's book "The Brave Knight" and a memoir "Everyone Was Silent". Diane also works as a body safety educator, delivering crucial educational programs to public schools. https://dianetarantini.com Tanith McCulloch served as the Sibling Sexual Abuse Project Officer for SARSAS in the UK. In addition to her role as a counselor and supervisor, Tanith actively contributed to the sensitive portrayal of sibling sexual abuse in the British TV show Hollyoaks, assisting in script authenticity and accuracy. Key Takeaways: Prevalence and Awareness: Sibling sexual abuse is a significant issue impacting numerous individuals, yet it remains underrepresented in popular media narratives.Consent and Responsibility: Media portrayals often fail to adequately address the complexities of consent, particularly in instances involving drugs or alcohol, portraying behaviors as consensual rather than abusive.Social Media and Survivor Communities: The episode discusses how social media serves as both a platform for survivor voices and a space for misinformation, emphasizing the need for informed conversation.Healing and Resources: Highlighting the fight for accurate storytelling, the discussion addresses the importance of providing resources and support for survivors within media representations.Future of SSA in Media: Diane, Tanith, and Brinn delved into their visions for future media portrayals which should influence public perceptions and lead to greater societal change. Notable Quotes: "In the survivor groups that I'm a part of... to have a loss of connection to your family is a huge part of sibling sexual abuse that I don't think is being talked about." - Brinn Langdale"We have to come away from that narrative that it is a fantasy...and branch it out so people are being seen and represented." - Tanith McCulloch"In a perfect world, I would love to see the survivor disclose and have a positive experience with that, like they're believed, they're supported." - Diane Tarantini"Bring all the storylines and then let's get together on these kinds of calls with lived experience people ... to really start to pull this apart." – Nancy Morris Resources: SARSASRAINNWhite LotusHollyoaks Chapters 0:00 Sibling Sexual Abuse Representation in Media and Its Impact 4:49 Controversial White Lotus Scene Sparks Social Media Debate 8:07 Addressing Sibling Sexual Abuse and Its Complex Impacts 12:49 Understanding Consent and Its Complexities in Media Narratives 15:15 Sibling Sexual Abuse Representation in Media and Its Challenges 23:58 Anticipation and Uncertainty in White Lotus' Final Episode 27:33 Understanding Sibling Sexual Trauma and Individual Reactions 31:23 Complex Storylines in Media and Their Impact on Audiences 33:19 The Debate Over Trigger Warnings and Their Impact 41:21 Diverse Media Representation of Complex SSA and SSB Experiences 44:58 Sibling Sexual Abuse and Family Dynamics in Media 49:21 Media's Role in Addressing Sibling Sexual Abuse Narratives
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    59 mins
  • Ep.60 | Non-Abused, Non-Abuser Siblings - Call for Research Participants with Anais Vanvliet

    Ep.60 | Non-Abused, Non-Abuser Siblings - Call for Research Participants with Anais Vanvliet
    Jan 9 2025
    In this illuminating episode of the #SiblingsToo podcast, hosted by Nancy Morris, Anais Vanvliet returns to discuss her groundbreaking research on the experiences of non-abused, non-abuser siblings within families affected by child sexual abuse. Anais shares her passion for highlighting the often-overlooked impacts on these siblings, driven by her personal and professional commitment to the subject matter. Nancy and Anais delve into the critical need for more focused research and policy changes to address the gaps in support systems. Diving deeper, Anais outlines her research's core questions, which explore both the experiences of these siblings and the current service provisions—or lack thereof—for them in Canada, particularly in Quebec and New Brunswick. She highlights the unique challenges and emotional impacts these siblings face, including feelings of isolation and jealousy, and the importance of trauma-informed approaches when engaging with them. Anais also touches on the broader conversation around sibling relationships in the context of family violence, emphasizing the need for comprehensive support systems and policy advocacy. About our guest, Anais Vanvliet: Anais Vanvliet is a PhD candidate in the School of Social Work at McGill University, focusing on the experiences and support needs of siblings in households where child sexual abuse (CSA) has occurred. Anais brings a unique perspective to her research with her lived experience as a sibling of survivors and her professional background as a trained social worker in sexual violence. Her work aims to enhance awareness, policy, and support systems for siblings affected by family violence in Canada. Key Takeaways: * The sibling dynamic in CSA-affected households is under-researched, leading to insufficient support for non-abused, non-abuser siblings. * Anais aims to fill this research gap by focusing on these siblings' experiences and potential support needs. * The impacts on these siblings can mirror those of the survivors, with additional unique challenges like feelings of exclusion. * Current service provisions often overlook these siblings, highlighting a need for advocacy and policy changes. * Anais's research seeks to provide data-driven insights to improve awareness and service provision for siblings affected by CSA and family violence. Notable Quotes: 1. "All siblings in the household can be deeply impacted by sibling sexual abuse or child sexual abuse generally, even if they're not directly involved." 2. "There's really no research or very, very, very little on the experiences of siblings surrounding child sexual abuse in a family." 3. "My work hopefully will help to kind of fill those gaps." 4. "If someone is missing in the conversation, the conversation is missing." 5. "The timing is right to do this work because in Canada, we are slowly starting to pay closer attention to siblings in the context of family violence." Resources: * Contact Anais Vanvliet via email anais.cadieuxvanvliet@mcgill.ca for participants interested in her research. * Mention of the scoping review by Peter Yates and Amy Adams on sibling sexual abuse -https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0145213424004666 Explore the full episode to gain an in-depth understanding of the dynamics of sibling relationships in CSA-affected households and to learn more about the vital research being conducted by Anais Vanvliet. Stay tuned for more insightful discussions and research findings in upcoming episode Timestamp Summary 0:00 Exploring Sibling Dynamics in the Context of Family Violence 8:15 Proliferation of Positive Psychology Research Projects in Early 2000s 8:57 Exploring Impacts on Siblings in Child Sexual Abuse Cases 12:45 Understanding Trauma's Impact on Non-Abused Siblings 16:10 Exploring Sibling Experiences in Child Sexual Abuse Research 24:24 Advocating for Sibling Support in Family Violence Services 28:30 Exploring Sibling Dynamics in Cases of Family Sexual Abuse 34:13 Exploring Sibling Experiences in Child Sexual Abuse Research 39:38 The Importance of Conversations on Sibling Sexual Abuse
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    44 mins
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