It’s easy to believe that once we arrange our life correctly, the anxiety will quiet and the sense of lack will disappear. A little more money. A different role. A better version of ourselves. Then things will finally settle.

This conversation explores that subtle threshold—where striving turns into infatuation, where comparison erodes self-trust, and where we begin chasing a fantasy of a life that is somehow all upside. Dr. Aziz sits down with Dr. Dave Tuck to reflect on values, identity, and the illusion that fulfillment lives somewhere outside our current experience. Together they examine the tension between growth and gratitude, ambition and alignment, and what happens when we stop trying to engineer a perfect life and instead learn to see the one we’re already in.

This is not a formula for attracting more. It’s an inquiry into self-worth, clarity, and the steady ground that comes from knowing who you are.

You might find yourself looking at your own life a little differently.

Most people don’t walk around thinking, “My worth is conditional.” They just feel the tension when things aren’t going well—and the relief when they are.

This episode sits with that tension. The quiet pressure to perform, to keep up, to prove something—often without realizing that your sense of value has been hooked onto outcomes, approval, or progress. When those things rise, you feel lifted. When they fall, something inside collapses. Not because anything essential changed, but because worth was never free to begin with.

Dr. Aziz reflects on how conditional self-worth forms, how it hides in plain sight, and how it can quietly run an entire emotional life. This isn’t a strategy session or a mindset fix. It’s an invitation to notice what you’ve tied yourself to—and what happens when that grip loosens.

You may find yourself recognizing something familiar, and feeling a little more space around it.