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Should You Quit Your Job? The Messy Reality Check

Should You Quit Your Job? The Messy Reality Check

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Thinking of quitting your job—or feeling stuck in endless indecision about what comes next? Welcome to a radically honest, no-bullshit exploration of what it really means to leave (or stay at) your job, beyond the capitalist scripts and polite resignation letters.

[CONTENT WARNING: Suicide, Murder.]

Join fulfillment coach and recovering overachiever Hélène Caniac as she drags job-quitting out of the “should I/shouldn’t I?” binary and into the real messy middle: privilege, self-worth, internalized hustle, and the sacred relief of finally giving yourself permission to want what you actually want.

This episode isn’t a checklist for burnout fixes. It’s an unfiltered invitation to get intimate with your true motivations, interrogate the invisible rules you follow, and start diversifying your identity far beyond your job title or paycheck. Whether you’re plotting a grand escape, reeling from a layoff, or just lost in existential limbo—consider this your call to dig deeper (and laugh a little along the way).


Work with Hélène: https://helenecanhelp.com

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Chapters & Timestamps:

  • 00:00 – Stuck in Indecision?

  • 01:06 – The Real Question: Should You Quit for YOU?

  • 02:52 – Privilege & Choice

  • 04:03 – Are You Quitting Your Own Job Description?

  • 05:56 – Journal Prompts & Internal Inventories

  • 07:27 – Disrespect, Boundaries, and Brutal Honesty

  • 09:11 – Your Why: The Diagnostic

  • 10:56 – Internal Patterns That Follow You

  • 11:56 – Boredom vs. Burnout: The Two Motivations for Leaving

  • 13:27 – Taking Ownership: What Are You Actually Expecting From Your Job?

  • 14:45 – Personal Story: Values That Made the Choice for Me

  • 17:39 – If You’re Indecisive, Here’s What That Really Means

  • 18:07 – Mistreated at Work? Financial Security vs. Self-Worth

  • 19:42 – Upward Mobility: For What Purpose?

  • 21:05 – Unlearning the Career-Centric Identity

  • 23:59 – Diversifying Your Identity: The Hard Truth

  • 27:42 – The Capitalist Trap and Building Your Own Village

  • 29:49 – Practical Support Systems: Who’s In Your Corner?

  • 32:09 – If You’ve Decided to Quit: Exit Energy, Not Apology

  • 34:55 – Duty vs. Desire: Start Now, Not Later

  • 35:48 – Release the Shame: Your Worth Isn’t Your Work

  • 38:09 – Joy in the Messy Middle + How to Get Support

Key Takeaways:

  • Indecision is normal—and it’s your cue to dig beneath the surface.

  • Privilege, and the systems at play, shape every “should I quit?” conversation.

  • You might be trying to escape not your job, but a toxic internal narrative or work identity—don’t drag that baggage into your next gig.

  • Connecting with your real values, setting boundaries, and building a genuine support web matter way more than any resume line.

  • You are worthy, whether you’re employed, jobless, burnt out, or thriving. Period.

  • Your life isn’t meant to be reduced to a job title or KPIs. Diversify your fulfillment—today.

Ready to quit—or not quit—on your terms? Unpack, laugh, and reclaim your choice (and your joy) with Hélène.

Explore more resources, coaching, and community through the links in the show notes. Your liberation from hustle starts here.

(If you found this episode a little blaring—or a little freeing—share it with someone ready for their own big, messy, honest reckoning.)

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