Episodes

  • ADHD, the Archer, & Adderall
    May 4 2022

    On this week's episode of She Told Me To we find our heroine Joan stranded as Bella falls prey to Darwin (this is a Survival of the Fittest joke). But fear not, for on this VERY special episode we have our very first guest- Catherine Emond or as you may know her xoswimmergirlxo, and the host of Dive In with xoswimmergirlxo. 

    Catherine & Joan talk all things living and loving with ADHD, sororities, our Red eras exes, and anything else that popped into our head because two ADHD women were left unsupervised, so it's not our fault.

    Check out Catherine's podcast Dive In with xoswimmergirlxo everywhere you stream podcasts! 

    To stay up to date on the latest She Told Me To podcast info follow us on the interwebs! 

    TikTok: @shetoldmetopodcast 

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    Catherine: @xoswimmergirlxo

    Joan: @happinessnwrath

    Bella: @baejla 

    See ya next week! 

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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • Treat 'Em Mean, Keep 'Em Keen
    Apr 19 2022

    Episode 5 follows our unlikely heroes as they unravel the mysteries of foot fetishes, Bridgerton season 2, and all things kink. So, really, what more could you ask for? 

    As always, to stay up to date on the latest podcast news follow us on Instagram and TikTok (because we're hip, gen-Z) 

    @shetoldmetopod on Instagram

    @shetoldmetopodcast on TikTok

    @baejla & @happinessnwrath on Insta & the Tok

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Honestly Hot Henry Cavill
    Apr 5 2022
    **Disclaimer Henry Cavill is NOT from Scotland, Joan is just dumb** We didn't mean to make our whole episode around Henry Cavill, but half of us just binged the Witcher. Episode 4 follows Bella and Joan as they discuss performative pleasure, male sex objects, and the various ways the unrealistic beauty standards for women have affected them.  Be sure to follow us so you never miss out: @shetoldmetopodcast @baejla @happinessnwrath on Instagram & TikTok (obviously)
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Astrology Makes Me Horny
    Mar 29 2022
    In Episode 3 our brave heroine Bella interviews Joan to tackle the big questions: "What is Astrology?" "Are Horoscopes Real?" "What the Heck is a Moon Sign?". If you've ever been curious, overwhelmed, or plain out perplexed by astrology- don't even know where to begin- this is the episode for you! Plus, we unpack Bella's birth chart and a mystery birth chart- whose identity is later revealed in the episode? (I'll take "what is a European man" for $500, Alex.) Join us as we take the podcast a little further than before and journey into the stars. (I'm not sorry- for the corny caption, because I'm not convinced y'all read these anyway. Hi, Mom!)  Follow us on instagram to stay up to date on the latest podcast news and have a front row seat to our chaotic lives! @shetoldmetopod @baejla @happinessnwrath
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Hard Ons & Heart Throbs
    Mar 23 2022
    EPISODE 2!!! We are diving into our BIGGEST CRUSHES from movies, books, tv shows so pour a glass, charge your vibrator, and turn up the volume!!! (Episode contains spoilers for Sarah J. Maas's Throne of Glass series, Crescent City (HoSaB) series, and ACOTAR series.) Follow @SheToldMeToPod for LIVE podcast updates, behind the scenes, & to spill your worst/strangest/weirdest experiences with us! @baejla @happinessnwrath __
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Dating Apps: Smash or Pass?
    Mar 15 2022
    OUR VERY FIRST SHOW!!! We thought we'd go easy on you for our first round. Pour a glass, take control of the aux, and settle in as we discuss one of the most important issues of our time--- DO DATING APPS EVEN WORK? (If you can't read dry humor this is going to be a very bumpy ride for you.) We discuss our first experiences with online dating (Sorry Mom & Dad), West Elm Caleb, our experiences with dating apps, using dating apps to find friends (looking at you Bumble BFF), and many many off topic tangents about disastrous dates gone wrong. Buckle up.  Follow @SheToldMeToPod for LIVE podcast updates, behind the scenes, & to spill your worst/strangest/weirdest experiences with us! @baejla @happinessnwrath __ Timestamps (if you're in a hurry) :00 Intro & Ep Highlight Reel  :36 Meet Bella & Joan  1:32 West Elm Caleb 1:50 Bella and Joan's First Dating App Experiences 3:58 Joan Discusses Joining Every Single Dating App  6:51 Have We Ever Had Something Successful Off of a Dating App?  8:15 Joan Discusses Running Away From Dates 8:51 Our POV on Dating Apps 15:46 Bumble BFF: Does it work? 32:20 Final Thougths 
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    35 mins
  • She Told Me To Trailer
    Feb 25 2022

    Every bad idea we’ve ever had wasn’t our fault- She Told Me To! A podcast exploring the nihilistic antics of two unhinged women in their Fleabag eras. In this essay we will cover: ex boyfriends, Taylor Swift’s entire discography, pisces men, psychics, controversial hot takes, ADHD brains, the sex lives of no-longer-college-girls, & continue the search for meaning in a meaningless world. Co-hosted by @happinessnwrath and @baejla.

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    2 mins