Born and raised in Harlem, New York, Sharay “The Punisher” Hayes shares a raw and unfiltered story about growing up during the crack era, being raised by his grandparents, and finding his own identity outside the streets.

From earning a basketball scholarship in New Orleans to playing overseas in Africa, Sharay’s life took an unexpected turn when heartbreak led him into the world of exotic dancing. After losing his girlfriend to a male stripper, he became one himself — not just to prove a point, but to discover more about love, ego, and self-worth.

In this candid interview, “The Punisher” opens up about:

- How he went from athlete to entertainer

- The truth behind his viral name and reputation

- What he’s learned about how to love a woman

- How erectile dysfunction and inadequacy are more mental than physical

- His connection to Cassie Ventura and the broader Diddy trial conversation

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00:00 Intro

05:02 Childhood

11:01 Dad's absence

18:10 Basketball

24:50 Becoming a male escort

37:30 Beefin' up

41:00 The Girlfriend

46:15 Managing hurt & heartbreak

54:39 How to love a woman

01:01:01 Karma hits

01:07:18 Diddy & Cassie

01:34:15 Why I got the pump

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