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Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

By: Dr. Emily Morse
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 Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.263834 Copyright © 2021 Chick Flick Productions. All rights reserved. Hygiene & Healthy Living
Episodes
  • Why Does Sex Stop After Marriage?

    Why Does Sex Stop After Marriage?
    Jan 30 2026
    When the wedding’s over and real life kicks in, it’s so common for sex to shift — sometimes fast. In this throwback live show, Dr. Emily tackles the myth that marriage equals the end of your sex life, and breaks down how to bring back that “honeymoon energy” without forcing it or turning intimacy into another chore. Emily shares a simple framework for staying connected long-term (including her idea of “sex vows”), then takes calls from listeners navigating a sudden post-marriage libido drop and the emotional whiplash of being single while everyone around you is getting engaged. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why desire often drops after commitment — and how to address it before resentment builds • Practical ways to revive novelty and reconnect (including “sex vows” you can actually use) • How to handle the pressure and loneliness when it feels like everyone else is getting married More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let’s text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. This episode is sponsored by… Qualia: Magnesium, multiplied. 10 forms for total support. Go to qualialife.com/SEXWITHEMILY to get 50% off and save an extra 15% with the code SEXWITHEMILY. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:26 - Current Trends in Sex and Relationships 5:25 - Essential Conversations Before Marriage 7:40 - Writing Your Sex Vows 9:49 - Planning Your Pleasure: Yes/No/Maybe List 12:39 - Recreating Honeymoon Sex Energy 16:00 - Q&A: When His Sex Drive Plummets After Marriage 22:30 - Q&A: Exploring Bisexuality in a Committed Relationship 25:24 - Q&A: Building a Sex Life You've Never Had 30:56 - Q&A: When Your Partner Doesn't Want Marriage
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    39 mins
  • LIVE with Emily - What Nobody Taught You About Dirty Talk

    LIVE with Emily - What Nobody Taught You About Dirty Talk
    Jan 27 2026
    You want to talk to your partner about sex. You really do. But every time you try, your throat closes, your chest tightens, and suddenly it feels easier to just… not. You're not bad at communication — your brain is literally wired to treat these conversations like threats. In this live show, Dr. Emily breaks down exactly why sex talks trigger fight-or-flight, how shame keeps us mute in the bedroom, and what to do when you've been together for years and never actually talked about what you want. This episode was recorded LIVE across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being LIVE together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good, without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why your brain treats sex conversations like danger (and how to override it) • How to find your sexual voice and stop cringing when you try to speak up • A husband's honest question about rekindling intimacy after kids More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let’s text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. This episode is sponsored by… Timeline Don’t let another year go by feeling less than your best. Grab 30% off your first month of Mitopure Gummies at Timeline.com/emily30 Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 06:45 - The Clitoris Has 12,000 Nerve Endings (Full Anatomy Explained) 13:20 - How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Cringey 18:15 - Mutual Masturbation: Why It's a Top Sex Tip 22:40 - Squirting: The Truth vs The Pressure 28:10 - Breaking Down Shame & Performance Anxiety 35:50 - Sex After Kids: Rekindling Intimacy (Live Caller Question) 38:25 - Medications Killing Your Libido (What to Do About It) 40:15 - Finding the Right Sex Therapist (Somatic vs Talk Therapy)
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    46 mins
  • LIVE With Emily - Stress Is Stealing Your Orgasms

    LIVE With Emily - Stress Is Stealing Your Orgasms
    Jan 23 2026
    You're in love. You're committed. So why does sex feel like it dropped off the priority list somewhere between laundry and meal prep? You're not broken — you're just busy, stressed, and maybe a little stuck in your head. In this live show, Dr. Emily answers your unfiltered questions about what happens when desire fades, how to talk to a partner who clams up about what they want, and why the "how often should we be having sex?" question is missing the point entirely. This episode was recorded live across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being live together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good — without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily. You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube! In this episode, you'll learn: • Why "how often should we have sex?" is the wrong question — and what to ask instead • The three pleasure thieves silently wrecking your libido • How to help a shy partner open up about their desires (without making it awkward) More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let’s text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. This episode is sponsored by… Bathmate: Try the Bathmate Hydro Pump Today at bathmatedirect.com! Use code “SWE10” for a discount at checkout! Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:04 - How often should couples have sex? 5:57 - Getting your partner to communicate about sex 8:39 - Do most couples talk about sex? 10:57 - Why your sex life shouldn't stay the same for decades 15:34 - Navigating intimacy with chronic illness 18:44 - Myth: Good sex should be spontaneous 21:06 - Myth: Orgasms are the ultimate goal 23:16 - Sex during pregnancy when your partner pulls back 26:57 - Dealing with early ejaculation 30:28 - Helping a stressed partner get in the mood 33:56 - Top sex toy recommendations 34:28 - Myth: Lube is only for older women
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    40 mins
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