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Serves You Right

Serves You Right

By: Andrew Roy
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Do you ever feel like life is happening around you, and you’re just drifting through it? Like you should be doing something—something more, something better—but you’re not sure what? My name is Andrew, and I’ve been there. Like so many in America, I found myself aimless, uncertain, and stuck in the cycle of service industry jobs. Until one day I found the courage to write post on simple thing online. "I'm still trying to answer the question of whether or not I can be happy working in a restaurant." Join me on this journey as I explore what it means...how we got here, what we can do about it!Andrew Roy Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • #54 Sudi Karatas: 5 Catering Stories that Explain Everything
    Dec 16 2025
    In this episode, I sit down with Sudi (AKA Rick) Karatas, author of How Catering Sucked the Life Right Out of Me, a working caterer, writer, actor, and lifelong observer of human behavior around various buffets. Sudi has spent decades inside high-end events most people only see for a few hours, serving celebrities, working million-dollar parties, and watching how power, money, and entitlement actually behave when the food comes out.Catering work, hospitality burnout, food waste in events, restaurant vs catering jobs, and creative survival jobs all collide in this episode. Most people assume catering is easier than restaurant work. More flexible. Less pressure. Fewer consequences. From unpaid breaks and discarded food to five-million-dollar children’s parties and celebrity rehearsals, he exposes how catering quietly amplifies everything in hospitality. The systems reward excess, normalize waste, and slowly disconnect workers from meaning, even while offering freedom on paper.Expect to LearnWhy catering waste is not accidental but structurally guaranteedThe hidden reason catering feels harder than restaurants over timeThe moment walking off a shift becomes the only rational moveHow “flexibility” can quietly trap creative people for decadesWhat guests do at catered events that instantly irritateLinksSudi Rick Karatas official websiteHow Catering Sucked the Life Right Out of MeSudi Rick Karatas on YouTubeSudi Rick Karatas on InstagramService starts now.Follow the show:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I talk mostly to people in and around the service industry space. I'm looking to hear from the people I wish I could have talked to when I was coming up in restaurants. Said another way: I am trying to make sense of this wild, beautiful mess of a life, and help others that are feeling similarly confused and/or lost. Check out the Podcast Website ⁠Here⁠ and get in touch with me!Classic Episodes You May Like:#22:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Doug Frost MW MS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#23:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeffrey Morgenthaler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#31:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ET: Entrepreneur (and creator of Surfer on Acid)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#38:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Aaron Goldfarb Hunting for Ancient Booze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#39:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Edward Slingerland's Masterful work on Intoxication⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#46:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Andrew Hurley of Vegas.Wine⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As always, I’m just here taking notes, trying to figure out what it all means.Cheers
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    28 mins
  • #53 Chris Schneider: The Real Cost of Chasing Your Bar Dream
    Dec 9 2025
    Most people fantasize about owning a bar. Very few survive it. Chris Schneider did both. He built thriving spots, faced the fires, lost money, rebuilt, adapted, and tells the truth so nobody else walks in blind. This conversation occurs in a space where most hospitality people avoid…because the reality is uncomfortable and loud.Chris Schneider joins Serves You Right for a raw, inside look at what separates a thriving bar from a slow financial death spiral. Chris grew up in one of Indiana’s top restaurants, watched it fall apart, opened his own bar at twenty two, and learned the hard way how fragile the business really is. This episode is a must listen if you’ve ever thought about opening a bar.You’ll hear why most people should never open a bar. You’ll understand why bad bosses stay bad and how to spot them long before your career gets dragged down with them. You’ll get the real math behind beer yields, theft, training gaps, and the invisible leaks that drain thousands every month.Expect to Learn The subtle green flags that reveal a great boss and the red flags that never lie Why most aspiring owners choose concepts the market doesn’t want The culture shift from old school chaos to today’s professional standard How small keg losses turn into tens of thousands gone each yearThe difference between harmless perks and real theft Why training is everything and ignorance is more expensive than malice How slow changes outperform big overhauls in neighborhood bars The real path to funding a bar without destroying your lifeLinksChris’s book: How to Make Top Shelf Profits in the Bar BusinessBar Business PodcastBar Business CoachService starts now.Follow the show:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I talk mostly to people in and around the service industry space. I'm looking to hear from the people I wish I could have talked to when I was coming up in restaurants. Said another way: I am trying to make sense of this wild, beautiful mess of a life, and help others that are feeling similarly confused and/or lost. Check out the Podcast Website Here and get in touch with me!Classic Episodes You May Like:#22:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Doug Frost MW MS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#23:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeffrey Morgenthaler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#31:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ET: Entrepreneur (and creator of Surfer on Acid)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#38:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Aaron Goldfarb Hunting for Ancient Booze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#39:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Edward Slingerland's Masterful work on Intoxication⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#46:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Andrew Hurley of Vegas.Wine⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As always, I’m just here taking notes, trying to figure out what it all means.Cheers
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    51 mins
  • #44 Kelli White: Wine Confidence Is a Superpower
    Oct 7 2025

    Kelli White has spent her career translating the mystique of wine into something real, personal, and alive. From working the floor at Veritas to writing for GuildSomm and publishing monumental books, she’s seen every side of the industry, and she’s tired of seeing people feel small around a glass of wine.

    This episode dives deep into the psychology of taste, the myth of “right and wrong” pairings, and the subtle power that comes from understanding the world’s most romantic beverage. Kelli shares stories from her early days running a wine shop filled with musicians, lessons from Napa’s vineyards, and how one simple glass of Châteauneuf-du-Pape changed her life.

    Whether you’re a sommelier, a server, or just someone who wants to love wine without the pressure, this is your guide to doing it with grace, intelligence, and joy.

    Expect to Learn:

    • Why smell drives the majority of flavor (and how to train it)
    • How to tell the difference between preference and quality
    • The truth about wine “rules” and which ones to ignore
    • Why your wine glass obsession might be pointless
    • How to explore wine systematically without getting lost
    • The mindset shift that turns wine knowledge into real-world power
    • What “fine wine must be grown” really means
    • How choosing wine can reveal character, leadership, and social awareness


    Links:

    • Wine Confident by Kelli White
    • Napa Valley, Then & Now
    • GuildSomm Articles by Kelli White (Free Access)


    Service starts now.

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    I talk mostly to people in and around the service industry space. I'm looking to hear from the people I wish I could have talked to when I was coming up in restaurants. Said another way: I am trying to make sense of this wild, beautiful mess of a life, and help others that are feeling similarly confused and/or lost. You can find more of my work at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠my blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and all my social links are at the bottom of that page.

    Classic Episodes You May Like:

    -#22:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Doug Frost MW MS⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    -#23:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeffrey Morgenthaler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    -#31:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ET: Entrepreneur (and creator of Surfer on Acid)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    -#38:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Aaron Goldfarb Hunting for Ancient Booze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    -#39:⁠⁠⁠⁠Edward Slingerland's Masterful work on Intoxication⁠⁠⁠⁠

    As always, I’m just here taking notes, trying to figure out what it all means.

    Cheers

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    48 mins
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