Laurie Gerber breaks down the six insecurities sabotaging love

In this episode of Love at Any Age, Laurie Gerber digs into one of the biggest challenges women over 50 face in dating: not liking themselves enough to enjoy dating. If you hear “be yourself” and think, “bad idea” this episode is your roadmap.

Laurie introduces the six major insecurities that sabotage women’s self-worth, and explains why “I’m not enough” is actually a cover story, and then goes deep into the most common issue of all—body image.

She shares her personal turning point, the 3 choices you have about your body, and why personal integrity is the fastest shortcut to real confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ Why self-love is essential for attracting and maintaining healthy relationships ✅ The six areas that most undermine self-worth for women in midlife ✅ Why low self-esteem is a symptom, not the actual cause ✅ How cultural and personal “excuses” slow down the self-worth game ✅ The 3real choices you have around your body image ✅ Why personal integrity is the fastest path to confidence and dating success ✅ Coaching homework to choose your “first domino” and create one new promise

Timestamps 00:00–02:29 — Why self-love determines your dating results Laurie explains why “being yourself” is impossible without self-love and introduces the six insecurities that block confidence. 02:29–07:32 — “I’m not enough” as a cover story Why low self-worth is a symptom of deeper issues and how common excuses prolong the struggle. 07:32–11:12 — You are lovable exactly as you are Laurie reframes self-worth as a spiritual truth and explains how treatable “liabilities” shape your dating pool. 11:12–16:51 — The six categories that undermine self-love A breakdown of body image, bad habits, flirting and sexual confidence, family relationships, exes, and unresolved hauntings. 16:51–24:48 — Deep dive into body image + the three choices Laurie shares her personal story, normalizes body-image struggles, and teaches the three options.: 24:48–27:37 — Personal integrity & the shortcut to self-worth How aligning your actions with your highest ideals builds confidence, plus coaching homework for New Year intentions.

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Concepts Featured: The Handel Method The 3H Framework (Head, Heart, Hoo-Ha/Heat) Personal Integrity

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