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Season 02: E02 | GRACE: Permission to Be Human

Season 02: E02 | GRACE: Permission to Be Human

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 What if grace isn’t the opposite of strength, but the source of it?In this second episode of the Take What You Need 100-day series, Dr. Phenessa Gray offers a deeply personal and research-informed invitation to rediscover grace—not as a soft sentiment, but as a strategic act of self-leadership. Rooted in Scripture and supported by leadership theory and neuroscience, this episode reframes grace as permission to be—to be honest, to be human, to be whole.Dr. Phenessa shares her own experience of burning out in silence, the weight of the “superwoman complex,” and the breakthrough that came when she finally allowed herself to stop performing and start healing. Through this lens, she introduces a grace-based leadership model—Pause, Perspective, Plan—designed to help leaders build emotional sustainability, prevent burnout, and re-engage with presence and intention.You’ll explore:The biblical concept of charis—grace as divine empowerment, not indulgenceEmotional sustainability as a leadership necessityHow chronic depletion disrupts executive functioning and decision-makingWhy grace doesn’t excuse outcomes—it preserves the leader delivering themThe neuroscience of recovery and the role of micro-shiftsA guided 4-4-6 breathwork practice to regulate and resetA poetic reflection on what grace sounds like in leadershipA heart–mind check and journal prompt to deepen awarenessActionable leadership shifts to help you lead from alignment, not exhaustionPerfect for:Leaders who feel stretched thin but stay silentWomen navigating the “strong Black woman” or “superwoman” identityLibrary directors, educators, nonprofit executives, and ministry leadersProfessionals managing emotional labor and invisible expectationsAnyone needing spiritual permission to rest, reset, and reclaim spaceWhether you’re navigating high demand, holding space for others, or just tired of leading from empty—this episode reminds you that grace is not weakness—it’s wisdom in motion.Join the ConversationShare your one-word intention using #TakeWhatYouNeed and connect with a community of leaders choosing presence over perfection. Together, we’re learning to Love Bold, Live Lit, and Lead Forward.Next Episode: Episode 3 – JOY: Resisting Hustle with Wholeness Connect with Dr. Phenessa💡 Website: EMSightGlobal.com📸 Instagram: @DrPhenessa💼 LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/phenessagray/✉️ Email: info@emsightglobal.com 🏮Subscribe to LeadInLight app (7-Day Trial for Premium Access)Love this episode?⭐ Leave a review on any podcast platform🔗 Share with a leader who needs this message🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode ________________________________________📚 APA 7 Reference List2 Corinthians 12:9–10. (n.d.). The Message. NavPress Publishing Group. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Corinthians+12%3A9-10&version=MSGArnsten, A. F. T. (2009). Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 10(6), 410–422. https://doi.org/10.1038/nrn2648 Blue Letter Bible. (n.d.). Charis (G5485) – Grace. https://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm?Strongs=G5485Hayes, S. C., Luoma, J. B., Bond, F. W., Masuda, A., & Lillis, J. (2006). Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 44(1), 1–25. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16300724/Hebrews 4:15–16. (n.d.). The Passion Translation. BroadStreet Publishing Group. https://www.bible.com/bible/1849/HEB.4.15-16.TPTHobfoll, S. E. (1989). Conservation of resources: A new attempt at conceptualizing stress. American Psychologist, 44(3), 513–524. https://doi.org/10.1037/0003-066X.44.3.513Neff, K. D. (2011). Self-compassion: The proven power of being kind to yourself. HarperCollins. https://books.google.com/books/about/Self_Compassion.html?id=6krvBkA78XcCPhilippians 1:6. (n.d.). The Voice Translation. Thomas Nelson. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians+1%3A6&version=VOICEBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/love-light-leadership-podcast--6730707/support.
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