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Schizophrenia: Three Moms in the Trenches

Schizophrenia: Three Moms in the Trenches

By: Randye Kaye
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Schizophrenia in the Family. How do we cope? How can we help? We each have adult sons with schizophrenia and have written acclaimed books about it. We say it like it is, to help families, practitioners and those with SMI (serious mental illness) feel less alone...and learn. Randye Kaye, Mindy Greiling, Miriam Feldman...and guests.

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  • Lives Reimagined: Changing the Course of Psychotic Illness (Ep. 125)
    Sep 11 2025

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    Lives Reimagined: Changing the Course of Psychotic Illness (Ep. 125)

    Guests: authors of the new book (same name) -

    Katharine Dougherty PhD, and Lisa Mann, PhD , and Dr. Rocco Marotta-a psychiatrist known for his successful treatment of "hopeless" cases-and practiced with remarkable success by the team he led at The Lodge program at Silver Hill Hospital in New Canaan, Connecticut.

    Written for families struggling to navigate the world of neuropsychiatric illness and useful for providers looking for a different approach to the treatment of neuropsychiatric disorders

    The book can be found at the following sites by putting in the title and authors: amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com, sdppublishingsolutions.com

    The Center for the Treatment and Study of Neuropsychiatric Disorders: silverhillhospital.org/TheCenter


    Why relabel SMI NBD (neuropsychiatric brain disease )?

    THEMES:

    • Hope and persistence are critical
    • No two cases are exactly the same
    • Medication and adherence and sobriety are important to sustained stability
    • It takes a team and long-term relationships to sustain stability
    • Communication among team members is critical
    • Taking small risks and succeeding leads to other risks
    • Rigid ideology has no place when you are untangling complexity and nuance
    • The diagnosis of NBD is often tied to a sense of shame and failure for patients and families
    • There are many important layers to the recovery journey
    • Constant reevaluation is important and this includes the importance of patient feedback


    Poetry from Zachary Sutphin


    "White pink blue"


    White pink blue

    The pills look like candy

    But taste like defeat.

    They taste like mother’s advice.

    Correct, we grow too see

    I take them Because otherwise,

    I might start believing.. believing in things that can't be believed

    in minds unlike mine


    They tell me it’s illness.

    But what if it’s clarity?

    What if losing grip

    Was divine sanity


    Still, I take them.....

    For the full poem, see our "Schizophrenia 3 Moms" Facebook page


    Thanks for liking and sharing the podcast!


    Mindy and her book: https://mindygreiling.com/

    Randye and her book: https://randyekaye.com/

    Miriam and her book: https://www.miriam-feldman.com/


    Want to know more?
    Join our facebook page
    Our websites:
    Randye Kaye
    Mindy Greiling
    Miriam (Mimi) Feldman


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    1 hr
  • Living With and Loving a Partner With a Serious Mental Illness (Ep. 124)
    Aug 20 2025

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    When the loved one with SMI is your peer, your partner, there are some challenges that differ from parenting someone with serious mental illness. Support, Education and new mindsets can help.


    Guests: Jeff Zuckerman, author of Unglued: A Bipolar Love Story - https://www.jeffzuckerman.com/

    and Annie Jaeger, wellness coach and NAMI Family Support Group facilitator - https://www.anniejaeger.com/


    Link to support group:

    https://heypeers.com/meetings/44205/details


    Scroll down for Lisa Wexler show links


    We ask:

    1. What do you see as the differences between being married to someone with a serious mental illness compared to the parent of someone with a mental illness.

    2. How have your children been affected by your spouse's mental illness, and how do you navigate your role as both spouse and partner in that regard?

    3. How do you set boundaries (a whole podcast in itself, no doubt) for yourself without guilt or shame? (Which can be a discussion about self-care.)

    4. Since you co-facilitate one of the few support groups for partners of those with a mental illness, tell us about the benefits of support groups.



    Lisa Wexler Links


    https://www.instagram.com/lisawexler.radio/



    https://www.lisawexler.com/


    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-trumps-plan-to-help-the-mentally-ill-good/id1063388065?i=1000721737436


    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-new-drug-could-revolutionize-treating-mental-health/id1063388065?i=1000718001577


    Also LISA on the LAW segments



    Thanks for liking and sharing the podcast!


    Mindy and her book: https://mindygreiling.com/

    Randye and her book: https://randyekaye.com/

    Miriam and her book: https://www.miriam-feldman.com/




    Want to know more?
    Join our facebook page
    Our websites:
    Randye Kaye
    Mindy Greiling
    Miriam (Mimi) Feldman


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    57 mins
  • Other Parents Like Me: Hope, Help and Healing (Ep. 123)
    Aug 15 2025

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    Guest: Casie Fariello from Other Parents Like ME


    • OPLM is an online platform and virtual community, designed to create a safe space with the access and support parents need as they move from crisis to healing.

    Links: https://oplm.com/

    Here are the social media links for Other Parents Like Me:

    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/otherparentslikeme
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/otherparentslikeme
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/other-parents-like-me
    • Linktree: https://linktr.ee/oplm

    We’ve also created a one-month promo code for your: TRENCHES3


    We Ask:

    • Your mission and how/why it started
    • resources available to parents like "us"
    • is this limited to parents of teens with mental health issues, or can parents of older kids - and other relatives - benefit?
    • what do you most want people to know?
    • Tips for parents, even if they don’t pay the $ to join the community?




    Thanks for liking and sharing the podcast!


    Mindy and her book: https://mindygreiling.com/

    Randye and her book: https://randyekaye.com/

    Miriam and her book: https://www.miriam-feldman.com/



    Want to know more?
    Join our facebook page
    Our websites:
    Randye Kaye
    Mindy Greiling
    Miriam (Mimi) Feldman


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    54 mins
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