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Say What You Mean (and Mean It Kindly)

Say What You Mean (and Mean It Kindly)

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In this episode, we dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking art of communication. From well-meaning words that backfire, to lessons from our children and students that remind us presence matters more than perfection, we explore how to repair, clarify, and return to curiosity in every conversation.

You’ll laugh, reflect, and maybe even recognize yourself in these moments — because miscommunication is universal, and growth often comes from the awkward, heartfelt “afterword.”

Ember Practices for This Week:

  • Pause before you react, reply, or correct. Ask: Am I trying to connect, or to convince?
  • Lead with curiosity: “Can you tell me more about what you meant?”
  • Reach out to someone who’s taught you something — even in small ways — and let them know you noticed.

Because peace isn’t quiet — it’s honest.

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If this spoke to you, share it with someone walking their own kind of fire.
Subscribe, leave a note, or send me your ember story — I’d love to hear it.

And remember: the fire we tend together always burns brighter.

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