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Save My Marriage Podcast

Save My Marriage Podcast

By: Aston and Adam Simmonds
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages.


We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together.


To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team.


We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.”


But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together.


This isn’t therapy. This is transformation.


This is the new paradigm of marriage.


This is the Save My Marriage Podcast.


Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you:


  • Rebuild trust
  • Rekindle connection
  • Communicate without conflict
  • Overcome resentment
  • And recreate a marriage you both love being in

New episodes every Tuesday

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Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast


Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com


Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

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Episodes
  • 8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage
    Apr 21 2026

    Apply to Work With Us

    If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

    This is not therapy.

    This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

    👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

    👉 Book a Call: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

    “We thought our partner was the problem…”

    But it wasn’t them.

    It was the pattern.

    The same fight.
    The same tension.
    The same feeling of going in circles… over and over again.

    “We see this every single day… couples stuck in patterns they don’t even realise they’re co creating.”

    The growth gap.
    The chaser and avoider.
    The over functioning and burnout.
    The roommate phase.
    The silent shutdown.

    None of these mean your relationship is broken.

    They mean you’re stuck in patterns you haven’t learnt how to see… or shift yet.

    And here’s the truth most couples miss:

    👉 It only takes ONE of you to change the pattern.

    If you’ve been feeling disconnected…
    If you keep having the same arguments…
    If you’re starting to wonder “is this just how it is now?”

    This episode will wake you up.

    Save this for when you feel stuck.

    Share it with your partner… or someone who needs it.

    Full episode: “8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage” is live now. Link in bio.

    #marriagetips #relationshippatterns #savemymarriage #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #coupleswork #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #communication #relationshipstruggles #healingtogether #modernmarriage #workingonus #savemymarriagepodcast

    Work With Us
    Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

    Free Resources:

    Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

    Listen to all episodes on Audio:

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    Watch all episodes on YouTube:

    https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

    Support the Show
    If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

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    36 mins
  • The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)
    Apr 13 2026

    Apply to Work With Us

    If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

    This is not therapy.

    This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

    👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

    “The manosphere lied to you about being a man… and it’s costing you your relationship.”

    In this episode, we break down the truth most men were never taught:

    The pressure to prove yourself.
    The mask of control, dominance, and “having it all together.”
    The quiet insecurity underneath it all.

    “Real masculinity doesn’t need to perform, control, or tear others down to feel powerful.”

    If you’ve ever felt confused about what it actually means to be a man…
    Or you’re in a relationship that feels disconnected, tense, or off…

    This episode will hit.

    Because the problem isn’t you.
    It’s the model you were given.

    Save this for when you need a reset.

    Share it with a man who needs to hear this.

    Full episode: “The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)” is live now. Link in bio.

    #masculinity #modernman #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #marriagehelp #marriageadvice #emotionalintelligence #menswork #selfleadership #personalgrowth #relationshipgrowth #intimacy #communication #healingjourney #couples #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast

    Work With Us
    Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

    Free Resources:

    Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

    Listen to all episodes on Audio:

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    Watch all episodes on YouTube:

    https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

    Support the Show
    If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

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    25 mins
  • Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It
    Apr 6 2026

    Apply to Work With Us


    If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

    This is not therapy.

    This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

    👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/
    👉 Free Relationship Breakthrough Session Book Here: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session
    👉 Recreate Your Relationship Retreat Check Here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

    “We keep having the same argument… and getting nowhere.”

    That’s what most couples say before they realise the truth.

    You’re not actually arguing about the problem.

    You’re arguing because you don’t understand each other.

    In this episode, we break down why you feel so misunderstood in your relationship:

    The way men and women communicate differently.
    Why one of you shuts down… while the other keeps pushing.
    Why fixing the problem isn’t actually fixing the relationship.

    “Your differences aren’t the problem. Your inability to understand them is.”

    If you’ve ever felt like:
    “I’m not being heard”
    “They just don’t get me”
    “We’re speaking completely different languages”

    This episode will shift everything.

    Save this for your next argument.

    Share it with your partner.

    Full episode: “Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It” is live now. Link in bio.

    #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #communicationinrelationships #emotionalconnection #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #relationshipproblems #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast

    Work With Us
    Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

    Free Resources:

    Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

    Listen to all episodes on Audio:

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    Watch all episodes on YouTube:

    https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

    Support the Show
    If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    Show More Show Less
    22 mins
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