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Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla

By: Phillip and Priscilla Fretwell
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In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.comPhillip and Priscilla Fretwell Christianity Spirituality
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  • Episode #46: Healing The Wounds Behind Same-Sex Attraction: Niki's Journey to Freedom and Genuine Love (Part 2)
    Apr 30 2025

    During a conference, we once asked everyone how many people had same-sex attraction as some part of their history, either from childhood, the porn they watched or a relationship they pursued. Over half the people raised their hand.


    Today, 22% of Gen Z identify as LGBTQ. Even with this level of cultural prevalence, many Christians struggle with how they view people with same-sex attraction, and what should they say to them.


    On this podcast, we have Part 2 of our conversation with Niki Speed, and how God pursued her life to not only save and heal her, but to bless her.

    You'll be encouraged by her story as we bring her husband Paul into the conversation. Together, they paint a beautiful picture of how God took a hopeless, helpless, hot mess (Niki's words), and turned her into something only God could create - beautiful, whole and redeemed.


    Phil and Priscilla


    P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (⁠⁠witministries.com⁠⁠). They would be glad to speak with you!



    Resources:

    Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at ⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠.

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    To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.⁠⁠


    Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    The Savage Marriage Study Guide is available on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.


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    32 mins
  • Episode #45 - Will I always struggle with this? The truth about Same-Sex Attraction, Shame, and the Power to Overcome: Niki Speed's Story
    Apr 23 2025

    When we first heard Niki Speed's story, it was instrumental in helping us believe nothing was too big for God, including same-sex attraction and the trauma of our past.

    Today, we're so pleased to introduce Niki Speed, who is married to Paul Speed, the Founder of Whatever it Takes Ministries.

    We've served with them for many years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and Niki is real, raw and shares transparently about how she not only embraced a lesbian lifestyle for 20 years, but also how she got there, and how God rescued her life.

    So, if you need a fresh touch from God in believing Him for what seems to be impossible, listen to Niki (and Paul) as they share how God brought Niki from a life that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's helping people overcome the trauma and wounds of their past.

    Phil and Priscilla


    P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (⁠witministries.com⁠). They would be glad to speak with you!



    Resources:

    Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at ⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠. ⁠⁠⁠⁠

    To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.⁠


    Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.






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    37 mins
  • Episode #44: Spiritual Intimacy: This was the Key that Changed Everything
    Nov 28 2024

    We've found that most marriages are chasing intimacy but looking in all the wrong places. We sure did, and it never created a relationship that met the deep needs of our souls.

    What we eventually discovered was that spiritual intimacy needed to be the foundation of our relationship, and that spiritual intimacy would lead to emotional intimacy. These two things, working together, then created a foundation for a new marriage, and one in which our sexual intimacy could grow and even flourish.

    Join us on this episode as we discuss the one thing we discovered that was key to becoming spiritually intimate. It's the most frequent question we receive from couples looking for a resurrection in their marriage.

    Phil and Priscilla

    P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at ⁠savagemarriageministries.com⁠. We'd love to talk with you!



    Resources:

    Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at ⁠⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠

    Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.


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    29 mins

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