You might be asking the wrong questions.

Not bad ones.

Just ones that never get past small talk.

And if that's happening in your voir dire… you're missing the moment where jurors actually connect.

Because connection doesn't come from:

"Where are you from?"

"What do you do?"

"Have you ever…?"

It comes from something deeper.

From getting jurors to talk about what they value and actually staying there long enough for it to mean something.

Most attorneys don't do this.

Not because they don't care… but because they've never been shown how.

And that gap? It shows up later in your damages.

Coach K and I break all of this down in this week's podcast:

• What a resonant conversation actually is

• Why it changes the way jurors see your case

• And how to start shifting your questions (without it feeling forced or awkward)

If your jury feels a little disconnected… this is likely why.

Love,
Sari

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"What we're really wanting from our jurors is to invest in the process. And the best time to do that is in voir dire — when they can talk about themselves and what they value… because at its core, what our plaintiff attorneys are fighting for are human values, things that we all care about. And that's what was taken in every single case."

Sari de la Motte

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I'm seeing this a lot lately, so let me say it straight: If your case feels too simple, you're probably FINALLY getting it right.

You keep trying to add more: more detail, more explanation, more persuasion.

But jurors don't need more.

They need clarity.

When you hit the point where someone hears your case and thinks, "Well… duh," that's the sweet spot.

Because "duh" means:

• It's common sense
• It's easy to understand
• It's hard to argue with

And most importantly, it triggers the question you want: "If it's so obvious… why didn't they do it?"

That's where your power is.

Not in being clever.

Not in making it complex.

In making it undeniable.

So if part of you is thinking, "This feels too basic…"

Good. Lean in.

Love,
Sari

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"If your case makes someone think, 'Well, duh,' that's when you know you've got it right. It means it's clear, it's common sense, and it's something no one can argue with. That's where your power is — not in being clever, but in being undeniable."

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking:

"Why does everything feel so overwhelming lately?"

It might not be your caseload.

It might not be your schedule.

It might be this: You're making thousands of decisions every single day.

Big ones. Small ones. Constant ones.

And it's draining you.

In this week's episode, I break down the exact tools I use to cut through decision fatigue, so you can STOP spinning and START moving.

Here's a quick look:

• Why "just thinking about it" keeps you stuck (and what actually works instead)

• How to create a personal litmus test so decisions become automatic

• The simple shift that instantly reduces overwhelm (hint: zoom out)

Because the goal isn't to make more decisions.

It's to make fewer and better ones.

If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or mentally tapped out… this one's for you.

Love,
Sari

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"The average person makes like 35,000 decisions a day… and for trial attorneys, you're making more high-stakes decisions than most people. All of these decisions lead to overwhelm."

Sari de la Motte

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