In this episode of the Twin Flame Truth® Podcast, Elle Hari welcomes Certified Be With Your Twin Flame® Coach Betty Smith for a powerful and honest conversation about what happens when your twin flame is the same sex as you. This is a topic rarely discussed, yet incredibly common—and often misunderstood.

Coach Betty shares her deeply personal twin flame journey, including the confusion, doubt, fear-based beliefs, and societal myths she faced around same-sex twin flames, divine masculine/feminine energy, and gender. Together, Elle and Coach Betty dismantle these misconceptions and bring clarity back to truth: the soul has no gender.

Same-Sex Twin Flames & Common Myths: Why the belief that twin flames must be heterosexual is fear-based, and how divine masculine and feminine energy have nothing to do with gender.

Doubt, Fear, and Labels: How same-sex dynamics intensified doubt on the journey, even in the face of undeniable twin flame signs—and how releasing labels brought freedom and peace.

False Twin Flames & Precursor Relationships: Why intense, dramatic relationships often appear just before meeting your true twin flame—and how they serve as energetic preparation.

Masculine & Feminine Energy Explained: A clear distinction between energetic polarity and physical gender, and why confusing the two creates unnecessary suffering.

Court Orders, Separation & Divine Intervention: How legal separation and external barriers can actually be the soul stepping in to create space for healing, self-love, and alignment.

Guest Introduction: Certified Be With Your Twin Flame® Coach Betty Smith, a coach with lived experience navigating a same-sex twin flame journey, legal separation, and deep energetic transformation.

Coach Betty’s Journey: From intense on-again/off-again cycles, doubt, and self-destructive coping, to finding peace, alignment, and magnetizing her twin flame through inner work.

Fear vs Truth: How fear complicates the journey through labels, societal expectations, and external belief systems—while truth is always simple.

• Twin flames are about energy, not gender.
• Masculine and feminine dynamics exist beyond physical form.
• Labels and identity-based definitions are fear-based and limiting.
• Doubt often persists until surrender and inner alignment are reached.
• True union begins with self-love, discipline, and energetic containment.

• Confusion caused by gender-based twin flame myths
• Doubt intensified by societal conditioning
• Fear-based comparisons to heterosexual twin flame dynamics
• Difficulty trusting the connection due to external judgment
• Legal or forced separation used as soul-level intervention

Coach Betty shares how her lived experience allows her to guide clients through intense doubt, separation, legal challenges, and same-sex twin flame dynamics with clarity, compassion, and conviction.

She emphasizes that the power of the journey comes not from the coach—but from truth, self-investment, and energetic alignment.

Website: www.coachbettysmith.com Instagram: @coachbettysmith Email: coachbettysmith@gmail.com