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In this episode, I’m joined by Nick Duffell, psychotherapist, psycho-historian and author, known for his pioneering work with people who attended boarding schools.

We explore:
• Nick’s background and the 1994 film 'The Making of Them'
• His latest book 'The Unmaking of Them: Clinical Reflections on Boarding School Syndrome'
• What “Boarding School Syndrome” means and how it shows up in adult life
• How boarding schools have been normalised in British society
• The impacts on intimacy, emotions and relationships
• The different typologies of survivors and how therapy can help
• Strengths that can also come from the experience
• The psychology of parents who send children away, and the wider culture that sustains the system

Nick also shares hopeful strategies for recovery, showing how healing is possible for those affected.

📚 **Find out more about Nick Duffell’s work**
Website: (https://www.boardingschoolsurvivors.co.uk)
Books:
– 'The Making of Them'
– 'Wounded Leaders'
– 'The Unmaking of Them: Clinical Reflections on Boarding School Syndrome'

www.woundedleaders.co.uk
www.genderpsychology.com

'The Making of Them' movie is available on http://youtu.be/2uRr77vju8U


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