It’s easy to feel “behind” when it seems like everyone around you is moving forward with partnerships, pregnancies, and families — and meanwhile you’re fielding questions from parents, watching friends’ announcements roll in, and quietly feeling the pressure of time. The biological clock conversation can feel loud, heavy, and incredibly anxiety-provoking, especially in your late 30s and 40s.

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Beth Gulotta — licensed therapist, founder of NYC Therapeutic Wellness, and host of the podcast Quiet the Clock. Beth has spent years supporting women who feel out of sync with cultural timelines, while also navigating her own very real and layered journey with partnership, egg freezing, infertility, pregnancy loss, and becoming a mother at 40.

Together, we talk honestly about what it’s like to want a child while living inside uncertainty. We explore the emotional and practical tension between taking action — getting information, exploring options, making decisions — and learning how to loosen your grip on the parts you simply can’t control. We also name the grief, comparison, and complicated feelings that can surface when life doesn’t unfold the way you once imagined it would.

In this episode, we talk about:

1. The emotional impact of feeling “behind” in your 30s or 40s
2. Navigating misaligned timelines within a partnership
3. Beth’s experience with egg freezing, natural conception at 39, and secondary infertility
4. How to take proactive steps without letting anxiety run the show
5. Why we so often put our lives on hold while we’re “waiting,” and how to stop missing the life you’re actually living
6. Making decisions based on how you want to feel, not what you think you should want
7. Supporting yourself during the holidays, when longing and triggers can feel amplified

This is a thoughtful, compassionate conversation for anyone who is carrying questions about fertility, timing, and what it means to trust yourself when the path forward isn’t clear.

Connect with Beth:

1. Have a listen to Beth’s podcast Quiet the Clock.
2. Follow Beth on Instagram.
3. Learn more about NYC Therapeutic Wellness on their website.

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