In this episode, Rosy Daniel and Karen Mellers explore the two-year transformative journey of Karen and her husband as they embrace the principle of My Space. They reflect upon how their family home in Derbyshire started to feel stuck and uncomfortable, which led them to take the decision to leave and embark on a two-year adventure as “Two Drifters” across various locations, through many other spaces, ultimately leading them to their new home in Scotland.

They explore the impact of the different places they stayed in through Airbnb rentals and house-sitting for friends, and what it was that told them that Scotland was the new right space for them. They discuss the emotional challenges of unplugging from all that is familiar, facing the loss of community, social and work patterns. This has led to great personal growth and a deepening of their relationship, catalysed through becoming comfortable in their inner and combined space in the presence of so many unknowns.

Takeaways

• The principle of My Space is about creating a nurturing environment.
• Discomfort can signal the need for change in our lives.
• Connecting with inspiring individuals can spark personal growth.
• Courage is essential when making significant life changes.
• Living in flow means embracing the unknown and trusting the process.
• Uncomfortable experiences often lead to the most growth.
• Letting go of the past can be a painful but necessary journey.
• Finding purpose and creativity in new spaces can enhance well-being.
• Building a home is a creative process that requires patience and trust.
• Community and connection are vital for emotional health.

Sound Bites

• “What is my life now?”
• “Leaving behind the uncomfortable comfort zone”
• “I want a new best friend in my new community.”
• “We are Coddywomplers. We travelled purposefully towards an unknown destination.”

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to My Space and New Beginnings
• 01:16 The Journey of the Two Drifters
• 04:11 Facing Discomfort and Stagnation
• 06:55 Seeking Inspiration and Connection
• 09:28 The Courage to Change
• 11:29 Living in Flow and Letting Go
• 15:51 The Adventure Begins: Exploring New Spaces
• 19:55 Growth Through Uncomfortable Experiences
• 22:35 Emotional Challenges of Letting Go
• 24:19 Finding Our New Space in Scotland
• 27:33 Discovering the Perfect Land
• 30:35 The Building Process and Creative Tension
• 34:09 Moving into the New Home
• 39:01 Adjusting to the New Space
• 41:36 The Significance of Coddy Wompling

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