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S2 Ep29 - Why “It’s Quicker If I Do It Myself” Is Ruining Our Careers (and Our Health)

S2 Ep29 - Why “It’s Quicker If I Do It Myself” Is Ruining Our Careers (and Our Health)

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We’ve all said it — “It’s quicker if I just do it myself.” But what if that belief is the very thing holding us back from freedom, leadership growth, and peace? In this episode, I unpack where micromanagement really comes from, why it’s burning working mums out, and how to shift from control to trust — the feminine way of leading with flow instead of force. ✨

Key Takeaways

  1. Micromanagement isn’t control — it’s fear and pressure in disguise. It stems from wanting to perform, time scarcity, and perfectionism.
  2. Doing everything yourself limits your growth. At work, it blocks trust; at home, it reinforces carrying the mental load.
  3. Perfectionism costs your health, joy, and leadership potential. The short-term gain leads to long-term burnout.
  4. The feminine shift is about trust, not lower standards. True leadership is about creating space for others to rise with you.
  5. Freedom starts with letting go. Ask yourself: “Where am I saying it’s quicker if I do it myself — and what would change if I trusted instead?”

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