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S 2 [Episode 4] Saint Pedro's On Daily Podcast(Relationship &African )

S 2 [Episode 4] Saint Pedro's On Daily Podcast(Relationship &African )

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Pedro:
“Dating in the Black African community is a unique experience because it’s not just two people falling in love — it’s two histories, two cultures, and sometimes two wounds meeting each other. For many of us, love is shaped by the environment we grew up in. A lot of Black Africans were raised in households where affection wasn’t openly shown, where parents were too busy surviving to teach emotional intelligence. So we enter relationships with big hearts but undeveloped communication skills. There’s also the pressure of tradition — where men are expected to provide even when the economy is tough, and women are expected to hold the home emotionally even when they themselves are hurting. And then you have generational trauma: absent fathers, tough parenting, poverty, and the idea that vulnerability is weakness. That creates a love style where people want to be loved deeply but are scared to open up. But at the same time, there’s beauty. Black African relationships are filled with loyalty, culture, humour, shared struggle, and deep connection. We don’t just date the person — we date the family, the culture, the expectations. Social media and modern life add pressure too, making people compare their relationships or chase unrealistic standards. So dating in the Black African community is powerful, complicated, emotional, sometimes painful, but always real. It’s a mix of tradition and modern life, unhealed wounds and new hopes — and we’re all trying to break cycles and build something healthier than what we saw growing up.”
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