Episodes

  • To Enjoy The Food You Grow
    May 28 2025

    Hey there, darlings welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast. Today I’m sharing a slower, sweeter reflection on something that’s been on my heart lately, the joy of growing your own food. With the busyness of spring, harvests starting to roll in, and everything asking for our attention, it’s easy to rush past the wonder of it all. But I want to invite you to savor it. Whether you’ve grown one tomato or a whole pantry full of produce, there’s joy to be found in every bite—if we choose to see it.

    Let’s focus on being present, celebrating the small victories, and remembering why we started this life in the first place.

    If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always, I bless you until next time.

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    45 mins
  • Tending Whats In Your Reach
    May 14 2025
    Hey there darlings, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast. Today’s episode is one I recorded as much for myself as for you. It’s a message I wish 22-year-old me could have heard—back when my dreams felt so big and my limits felt so loud. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by what you can’t do, this episode is a gentle reminder that there’s sacred strength in doing what you can. I’m talking about tending your life like a garden—not in panic, not in perfection, but in presence. Whether you're in a season of limitations, raising babies, or just navigating a world that feels a bit too urgent, you’re not alone. There is wisdom in your limits. There is grace in your pace. And there is peace in choosing to be rooted right where you are. This conversation touches on preparation, presence, performance, and the quiet rebellion of slow living. Let it encourage you to stop striving, to tend with care, and to trust that what’s within your reach is enough. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A. As always, I bless you until next time.
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    47 mins
  • Motherhood: A Conversation with Regan
    May 7 2025
    Hey there darlings, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast. In honor of Mother’s Day, I invited my sweet friend Regan on for a deeply personal and honest conversation about motherhood—what it teaches us, how it changes us, and how it shapes the lives we’re building. Regan is a new mom, and I’m just about to watch my oldest son turn twenty. We’re in such different seasons, but we share a love for this calling and the sacred work it requires. We talk about sacrifice and legacy, growing our families and ourselves, grief and hope, presence and responsibility. From baby challenges to homestead dreams, from sleepless nights to small victories, this conversation holds space for the beauty and hardship of being a mama in today’s world. If you’ve been longing for some solidarity and reflection in your motherhood journey—whether you're brand new to it or decades in—I hope you’ll sit with us a while. Also, if you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A. As always, I bless you until next time. . Regan's writing can be found here: https://homemadehomestead.substack.com/profile/posts . A little note: We had some minor audio hiccups while recording—I'm trying out new software to bring remote guests on more regularly—but I didn’t want to toss out such a meaningful conversation. Thanks for your grace as we grow.
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    50 mins
  • Rooted and Ready (Lets Talk Preparedness)
    May 1 2025

    Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast!
    Let’s talk about preparedness, not the kind you see on sensational TV shows or fear-driven social media, but the kind that grows from peace, purpose, and love. In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts on what it really means to be rooted and ready in a world that feels increasingly uncertain. We’re talking food security, skill-building, and heart-centered home readiness—not panic, not hoarding, but stewardship and hope.

    I’ve distanced myself from the word “prepper” for a long time because of what it’s come to mean—but truthfully, I do believe in being prepared. Not with shelves full of stuff, but with dirt under your nails, knowledge in your heart, and the peace that comes from knowing you’ve stewarded well. Skills can’t be bought—but they can be cultivated. Let’s talk about how.

    Take a deep breath, friend. Let’s grow steady together.

    If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always—I bless you, until next time.

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    42 mins
  • Some Fool Without a Phone (The Balance of Homesteading)
    Apr 23 2025

    Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast!

    This week, I’m sharing some thoughts from a damp, full spring garden and continuing a theme we’ve been sitting with these last few weeks—living slow, present, and rooted in truth. In this episode, we’re talking about balance—in nature, in our minds, and in the kind of lives we’re building. I share a bit about learned helplessness and how the homesteading life helped me unlearn mine, not by fixing everything, but by giving me something real to put my hands to. We’ll talk about fear, media, healing in the garden, and what it means to reclaim the driver’s seat of your life… even when the road ahead feels uncertain.

    Thank you for spending time with me today. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always—I bless you, until next time.

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    49 mins
  • The Kind of Person Who Bakes Bread
    Apr 16 2025

    Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast!


    This week, I’m sharing some thoughts from the middle of a very full season—spring is here in South Carolina, and the weeds are wild, the animals are having babies, and I’m neck-deep in garden work. But in all of that, I’ve been thinking a lot about the difference between the idea of a thing and the reality of it. In this episode, I talk about the hard-earned truth behind romantic dreams, what it really means to “be the kind of person who bakes bread,” and how choosing to show up—again and again—is where real transformation happens. If you’ve ever longed for a slower life or felt stuck waiting for better circumstances, this one’s for you.

    Thank you for spending time with me today. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always—I bless you, until next time.

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    36 mins
  • A Simple Life - The Richness of Presence
    Apr 9 2025

    Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! This week we’re continuing the conversation we started last time—shifting from understanding the nervous system to really choosing to slow down and live simply. In this episode, I’m sharing what it means to build a slower life on purpose and how the richness of presence can change everything. We talk about romanticizing the everyday, practicing gratitude, and letting peace take root in our routines. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by hustle culture or longed for a quieter, more meaningful way of living, this one’s for you.

    Thank you for spending time with me today. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always— I bless you, until next time.

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    41 mins
  • A Sound Mind (Fight or Flight in a Scary World)
    Apr 2 2025

    Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! I’m your host, Jessica Sowards—my friends call me Jess—and around here, we talk about all things homesteading: growing food, raising animals, preserving and preparing what we harvest, and living more mindfully in relationship with each other and with the Earth.

    This week, I’m sharing something that’s been heavy on my heart—how we care for our minds in a world that feels loud, fast, and anxious. I’ve been spending long hours in the garden, weeding and thinking, and it led me to reflect on the nervous system, trauma, and the way we sometimes try to bully our way into peace instead of nurturing it. I’m talking about what it means to pursue a sound mind—what that really looks like on a practical, daily level—and how I’ve found surprising healing in something as simple as crochet. This is a conversation about choosing slow and quiet in a world demanding fast and loud. It’s about protecting your peace, holding space for healing, and doing the inner work that creates a secure home for ourselves and the ones we love.

    Thank you for spending time with me today. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A.

    As always— I bless you, until next time.

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    40 mins