“Is my list too long, or is my discernment too low?”

In Episode 2 of the Singles Love Series, host Natasha Elaine challenges the culture of “lowering the bar” to find love. This episode explores why standards are not a wishlist, but an act of stewardship.

As conversations around Christian relationship goals in 2026 trend culturally, this episode grounds dating decisions in Scripture, fruit, and spiritual responsibility rather than vibes, pressure, or performance.

This is not about rigidity. It is about obedience, wisdom, and alignment. Learn how healed love screens connections for safety, character, and fruit while remaining open to what God is doing.

Episode Topics

• Christian dating and discernment
• Faith-based relationships
• Standards and stewardship in love
• Dating without fear or pressure
• Screening for fruit and alignment
• God-centered dating decisions

Scriptural Foundation

• Proverbs 4:23
• James 1:5
• Amos 3:3
• Luke 16:10
• Matthew 7:16

Kingdom Artist Featured
Lee Vasi with 1KPhew, Mike Teezy, J'ordan Armstrong

Roads, Rocks, Weeds +Soil Podcast: Navigating Life through Faith, Grace + Wisdom
ICU Radio 97.3 Music replay available on Mixcloud.com/rrwspodcast

What does healed love actually look like when someone shows interest?

In this episode of Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil, Natasha Elaine explores faith-based dating through the lens of standards, stewardship, and spiritual discernment. This conversation moves beyond chemistry and emotional momentum to examine alignment, fruit, and responsibility in modern dating.

With relationship conversations trending in pop culture, this episode reframes “relationship goals” through Scripture, wisdom, and practical clarity, helping listeners discern who gets access, why, and when.

🎧 Topics include:• Christian dating standards• Discernment and alignment• Dating without pressure or fear• Faith-based relationship wisdom• Emotional maturity and stewardship

🎵 Kingdom Artist of the Week: Lee Vasi

faith and relationships, dating with purpose, spiritual discernment, modern dating, Kingdom relationships, healing and love, emotional maturity

Healing was the beginning.
But what happens when desire shows up in a healed body?

In Episode 1 of Singles in Love, Natasha Elaine explores fire, passion, and attraction after healing. This conversation is for singles in Christ navigating desire without shame, without recklessness, and with wisdom rooted in faith.

We talk about desire as information, not failure. Fire as awareness, not urgency. And how healed love learns to sit with passion instead of being driven by it.

Featured Kingdom music:

Childlike CiCi, Pastor Mike, Jr. and Lee Vasi
Song of the Week: Water by Childlike CiCi

Resources:Faith After Fire JournalFrom Faith to Fruit Dating Activity Journalrrwspodcast.com/digital-resources

Coming next: EP2 – Faith & StandardsYour list as stewardship, not control.

00:00 Fire After Healing

00:23 Welcome to Singles in Love

02:47 When Desire Wakes Up

04:44 Desire Through Scripture

07:15 Healing Clarifies Desire

09:32 Shame vs Discernment

11:10 What Grown Desire Looks Like

12:31 Self-Control as Protection

13:11 Reflection & Resources

15:16 Faith Before Movement

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