In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Riko Ryuki, a neurodivergent parent, advocate, and writer, about their journey through autism, gender, and identity. Riko shares how discovering they are agender and asexual helped them feel more whole, and why language and community are so important in the process of self-discovery.

This conversation offers strength, validation, and practical advice for anyone exploring neurodivergence and queerness. Listeners will leave feeling seen, supported, and inspired to embrace their authentic selves.

Key Takeaways from the episode:

• Having the right words matters as they help explain your experience and connect with others.
• Feelings and actions aren’t always aligned and that’s okay.
• There is power in owning your identity, as being yourself brings clarity and strength.
• Safe spaces are essential, find and build communities where you feel free to be you.

“Now I know who I am, I can be me a lot easier. I have the words to describe my experiences. I can connect with other people. I can stop feeling different from others for not understanding who I am. It can make you feel like you're broken or like you're missing something that everyone else has. It's good when you have the words to explain that.”

About Riko Ryuki (they/them):

Riko Ryuki (they/them) is an autistic and PDA-identified parent, writer, and blogger. They are agender, aromantic, and asexual, and proudly has multiple disabilities. Riko writes about PDA, disability, identity, and parenting. They are passionate about creating inclusive spaces for expression and connection. When they’re not writing, Riko enjoys books, cacti, and going to the gym.

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