Dreaming of a marriage miracle? That magical moment when everything just clicks and your relationship problems vanish into thin air? We've all been there. But as we unpack in this illuminating episode, lasting change rarely happens through wishing alone.

Drawing from the powerful story of a man who prayed for a better job but never submitted a single application, we explore how faith without action leaves our marriages spiritually and relationally starving. God isn't holding back from blessing your relationship—He's inviting you to participate in its restoration through what we call "the cycle of change."

This revolutionary eight-step framework begins with remembering God's love for you and cycles through responding to His call, understanding love through personal experience, drawing closer to understand Him deeply, obeying naturally as you abide in Him, loving others as expression of obedience, and finally experiencing true joy. The beauty of this cycle? It can restart as many times as needed when we get derailed by lies, fear, sin, faltering faith, or frustration.

The transformation you seek isn't about waking up tomorrow with a perfect spouse or marriage. It's about becoming moldable in the Master's hands right in the middle of your mess. God's rescue mission for your marriage begins with your heart. Are you ready to restart the cycle today?

We challenge you to read Psalm 18 and John 14-17 this week to gain clarity on abiding in Christ and how your relationship with Him directly impacts your ability to love your spouse. Remember—you're not alone in this journey. The Father speaks to Jesus, who speaks to the Holy Spirit, who speaks to you. Will you share that divine wisdom with your spouse?

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