Relationships Are Not Safe Spaces
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Relationships Are Not Safe Spaces
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About this listen
Relationships aren't fragile. They need healthy stress to make them strong.
In this episode, Matt and Graham explore how the language of emotional regulation and safe spaces - imported from therapy rooms and HR departments - has reshaped what many now expect from their closest relationships. For many couples, modern love means no raised voices and gentle communication. Conflict and arguments are seen as a failure.
What gets lost in the push for comfort is any room for challenge; for the difficult-but-essential conversations that allow you to grow together.
Good relationships aren’t low-conflict; they’re high-repair. Connection grows from working through things, not avoiding it. Conflict isn’t the problem—how you handle it is.
The Psychology Today blogpost they discuss is available here.
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