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Potential is attractive, but patterns never lie. In this episode, we dig into the messy, funny, and painfully real difference between red flags and green flags—why intensity feels like intimacy, how chaos can make stability uncomfortable, and what someone’s actions reveal long before their words do. We break down emotional unavailability, blame-shifting, hot-and-cold affection, jealousy disguised as passion, and secrecy habits that signal trouble. Then we highlight the green flags that build real, lasting connection: clean apologies, dependable consistency, everyday empathy, and initiative that makes love feel safe instead of confusing.

We also unpack three AITA stories that expose the truth about boundaries—from ending a relationship after rejected proposals, to open marriage dynamics gone wrong, to locking your bedroom door to protect your space. Each story drives home the same lesson: boundaries aren’t aggression; they’re clarity. By the end, you’ll have a sharper lens for choosing partners who make peace feel normal, not fragile. If this episode hits home, follow Life After I Do Podcast across all platforms, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help more people find the show.

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