This week’s episode is all about something we all need a little more of—gratitude, grounding, and giving ourselves grace through the holidays.

With Thanksgiving right around the corner, we’re diving into simple, practical ways you can weave gratitude into your running and daily life. Not in a “force yourself to be grateful” kind of way, but in a gentle, real, “let’s slow down and notice what’s good” way. From a 30-second pre-run gratitude pause to a post-run cool-down chat with yourself, these tiny practices can completely shift your mindset, your training, and honestly… how you feel about your body.

We also talk openly about something many runners struggle with but don’t always discuss—holiday food anxiety. The pressure, the comments, the guilt, the urge to “earn your food”… we’re not doing that this year. I walk you through how to approach holiday meals with more compassion, less fear, and a lot more presence so you can actually enjoy the season without feeling like you’re betraying your goals or your body.

And because consistency can get tough this time of year, we share strategies to help you stay connected to your training without feeling rigid or overwhelmed. Spoiler: flexibility and grace are part of the plan.

We also introduce our brand-new 30-Day Running Reset inside the new RLR app, built to help you rebuild your foundation, reconnect with your body, and fit running, strength, and mobility into real life—even during the busiest season. The app makes it easy, doable, and supportive, so you don’t have to figure things out alone.

As always, we close with a huge dose of gratitude for you—our community. You’re the reason this podcast continues to grow, and it means the world when you leave a review or share the show with another runner who might need it.

Take a breath, take a moment, and let’s step into this holiday season grounded and grateful—together.

01:28 The Power of Gratitude

06:19 Gratitude in Running

13:45 Thanksgiving Food Anxiety

22:09 Reprogramming Your Relationship with Food

22:27 Fueling Your Body for Performance

24:32 The Myth of Ketogenic Diets for Athletes

25:39 Enjoying Holiday Meals Without Guilt

27:55 Training Through the Holiday Season

33:49 Maintaining Consistency and Identity as a Runner

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In this week’s episode, Kevin and I dive into something that so many runners (especially my fellow Type A personalities!) will relate to — the paradox of control.

As runners, we love our plans, our paces, our structure. Control helps us stay consistent and push toward our goals. But when that need for control starts to take over, it can also lead to stress, frustration, and even burnout — both on the run and in life.

We open up about some personal experiences — from remodeling our bathroom (hello, chaos!) to grieving the loss of our sweet pet — and how those moments reminded us that not everything can or should be controlled. Sometimes, the best growth happens when we learn to let go and allow space for life (and training) to unfold.

In this episode, we talk about:
🏃‍♀️ How control can be both your superpower and your stumbling block
🧠 Why surrendering doesn’t mean giving up — it means trusting the process
💡 The mindset shift that helps you find freedom and flow in your running
📓 A journaling prompt to reflect on where you might need to take more control… or where it’s time to let go

If this resonates, we’d love for you to take a few minutes to reflect and share your insights with us — or bring them to your next run and see what comes up.

🎧 Tune in now and let’s explore what it really means to find balance between holding on and letting go.

00:00 Introduction to the Paradox of Control

09:35 Cross Country Team and Control

12:34 Understanding Control and the Nervous System

19:33 Effort, Consistency, and Mindset

28:51 Shifting Belief Systems

30:50 Grace and Patience with a New Dog

33:03 Uncontrollable Factors in Running

36:06 Hormonal Influences and Control

40:05 Structured Flexibility in Training

42:31 Balancing Control and Surrender

52:03 Invitation to the Real Life Runners Team

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