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R&B Talks

R&B Talks

By: Reggie Payne and Brian Kirby
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The noise of our culture and the world we live in can be overwhelming. With the vast amount of information that we have access to, there is confusion as to how one should perceive the world. Reggie and Brian are two guys who seek to share their journey and wisdom garnered from their faith and life experience to lend a hand in understanding the reality we live in. We, as men, are here on this earth to be leaders, husbands, fathers, sons, friends, brothers, uncles, nephews, and witnesses. R & B Talks is one place where we try to cut through the noise of the culture and the world and help give some real transparent views on important aspects of life, men, Christianity, or whatever comes up. Join us as we have real unscripted discussions about issues and life. Just 2 guys in 2 chairs talking.

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R&B Talks 2023
Christianity Spirituality
Episodes
  • EP113 - Secular vs Christianity: Who Is More Moral on Crime and Infidelity? (Part 1)
    Nov 19 2025

    An atheist friend looks at a devout, church-involved Christian who blew up his life with adultery and says:

    "I am over here minding my own business, not hurting anybody, and look at what you people in the church are doing."

    That hits hard. And it raises a brutal question: are Christians actually any better than secular people when it comes to crime, adultery, and basic morality, or are we just hypocrites with a Jesus label?

    In Part 1 of this two-episode series, we walk through that real story and then start digging into what the research actually says about crime, infidelity, and religiosity. We talk about the gap between what Christianity claims and how Christians actually live, the failure of church discipline, spiritual warfare, and why the data gets so messy any time you try to compare "Christians" and "secular people."

    Part 2 will zoom in on what the Bible actually says about sin and hypocrisy, and then dig into the deeper question: where does morality come from in the first place, with help from C. S. Lewis and Mere Christianity.

    In this episode:

    [1] Intro, paper, printers, and feeling 7,000 years old [2] The real story: a devout, church-involved Christian in adultery [3] An atheist friend saying, "Look what your people are doing" [4] Why hypocrisy in the church hurts so much [5] Church as a hospital for sinners vs a showroom for the "put together" [6] The temptation to hide sin so we do not "tarnish the brand" [7] What Christianity actually claims about sin, grace, and transformation [8] Two big problems in the Western church: inversion and people-pleasing [9] Why following Jesus can make life harder, not easier (spiritual warfare) [10] Why crime data does not cleanly separate "Christian vs atheist" [11] What studies and meta-analyses say about religiosity, crime, and delinquency [12] What the research says about infidelity, church involvement, and cheating [13] Bible Belt vs more secular areas, and why poverty and culture matter [14] Jonestown, Waco, Westboro, and cults that wreck Christian credibility [15] Fatherlessness, crime, and an analogy for forgetting God as Father [16] Why Christians are still human, but a healthy church path pushes away from sin [17] Why the issue is not "our team is better," but whether we are honest about sin

    Questions for the comments:

    [1] Have you personally seen serious immorality or hypocrisy inside a church? [2] How did your church handle it: ignore, quietly bury it, or deal with it openly and biblically? [3] Did it pull you toward Jesus, away from him, or just make you more cautious about church?

    Come back for Part 2, where we open the Bible on Christians and sin, and then ask where morality itself comes from.

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    39 mins
  • EP112A | Rooted, Not Rattled - Our Mens Conference Debrief
    Nov 10 2025

    We debrief a local mens conference: fear vs courage, roots before fruit, brotherhood you can count on, and calling at home that builds legacy. Practical steps help turn good intentions into action this week. Connect with us on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook.Key topics:[1] Fear vs courage and roots before fruit[2] Brotherhood you can count on[3] Calling at home and legacy[4] Scriptures that anchor courage and community[5] A simple Monday plan to make it stickChapters (semicolon separated, ASCII):0:00 Cold open and why we went; 01:12 Rooted theme and first impressions; 05:54 Fear vs courage and roots before fruit; 13:53 Brotherhood you can count on; 28:21 Calling at home and legacy; 40:28 Wrap and weekly challenge

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    42 mins
  • EP111 - Manufacturing Isnt Gone - Why Bringing It Back Is Harder Than You Think
    Nov 4 2025

    Jobs fell, but US manufacturing output did not vanish. We separate myth from reality, unpack nearshoring vs de-China-fying, explain Made in USA vs Assembled in USA vs qualified claims, and dig into the tool and die chokepoint. We finish with two credible paths to double capacity and what would actually move the needle.

    Key topics: [1] Output vs jobs; automation and mix shift [2] Nearshoring, Mexico, and upstream inputs [3] Tool and die bottleneck (capacity, talent, lead times) [4] Math of doubling capacity (people path vs automation path) [5] Honest labeling and consumer choice

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    1 hr and 21 mins
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