When betrayal shatters your world—especially within the church—it’s natural to ask, “But where was God?” In this honest and vulnerable episode, we talk about the spiritual confusion, anger, and silence that often follow infidelity and ministry-related betrayal.

If you’ve been left reeling from broken trust in your marriage or within your faith community, this conversation is for you. Together, we’ll explore what Scripture says about suffering, how to be honest with God in your pain, and why questioning His presence doesn’t disqualify your faith.

Whether you’re a pastor’s wife, ministry leader, or someone carrying betrayal trauma, you’re not alone. There is space for your grief and your healing. There’s a way forward—even when God feels distant.

Joni is a Certified Professional Life Coach. Her mission is to create a safe and judgment-free space for Christian women who have experienced infidelity to process the betrayal, rediscover their God-given identity, and move forward with renewed purpose.

Contact - Coaching@JoniPauley.com

Schedule a free call to see if coaching is right for you:

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"Heaven Only Knows"

In this heartfelt episode, Joni Pauley shares her recent emotional struggles while revisiting a place filled with painful memories of Infidelity. She reflects on the unexpected challenges of confronting her past, the feelings of self-doubt and failure that arose, and the importance of vulnerability in the healing process. Through her journey, she emphasizes that it's okay to have setbacks. Embrace your feelings, seek support, and remember that you are not alone in your struggles.

Joni is a Certified Professional Life Coach. Her mission is to create a safe and judgment-free space for Christian women who have experienced infidelity to process the betrayal, rediscover their God-given identity, and move forward with renewed purpose.

Contact - Coaching@JoniPauley.com

Schedule a free call to see if coaching is right for you:

⁠bit.ly/401sFdt⁠

Music provided by https://slipstreammusic.com

"Heaven Only Knows"

Listen to the Sound of Survival Playlist

In this episode of Processing Infidelity in the Church, Joni lets us sit in Survival Mode a bit longer, sharing a playlist of songs that helped her work through the grief and shock of infidelity in her own life. Don't be afraid to feel the feels, explore the losses and let God just hold you in this time.

We don't need to rush - survival happens one day at a time.

⁠Grab your FREE Survival Guide Encouragement Download⁠

Joni is a Certified Professional Life Coach. Her mission is to create a safe and judgment-free space for Christian women who have experienced infidelity to process the betrayal, rediscover their God-given identity, and move forward with renewed purpose.

Contact - Coaching@JoniPauley.com

Schedule a free call to see if coaching is right for you:

bit.ly/401sFdt

Music provided by https://slipstreammusic.com

"Heaven Only Knows"