Divorce doesn't start when you file the paperwork. It starts the moment you realize your marriage might end, and what you do in that space between realization and action can determine if you move through the process with clarity or chaos.

In this episode, Linda Weiksnar, a seasoned family law attorney, walks through exactly what someone should be doing before they ever schedule that first consultation. She covers getting your emotional house in order, understanding your finances, and managing expectations about custody. Listen in to get a rare look at what actually matters in court, how preparation (both practical and psychological) shapes everything that follows, and why the work you do before filing determines the outcome more than most people realize.

What You’ll Learn:

• The most overlooked step before divorce.
• How to gather financial information even if you never handled the bills.
• What a financial affidavit requires and how to prepare ahead of time.
• Why courts don’t consider fault or heartbreak (and what they do consider).
• How Florida’s 50-50 time-sharing presumption changes custody expectations.
• What dissipation of assets means and when infidelity actually matters.
• Why friends, family, and non-family-law attorneys aren’t reliable guides.

Ideas Worth Sharing:

• “The court can't fix your heartache. I can't fix your heartache. I can probably counsel you pretty well after a bajillion years of doing family law, but that's not what I'm trained for.” - Linda Weiksnar
• “Divorce is similar [to marriage] because you can't come out of it thinking, “Okay, I'm divorced now, I'm healed, I'm ready to move on.” - Linda Weiksnar
• “You want your money to send your kids to college, not send my kids to college.” - Linda Weiksnar

Resources:

• Linda Weiksnar: LinkedIn
• Genevieve George: Website | LinkedIn
• Crary Buchanan

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