Avoiding pain keeps you stuck in cycles. Pain isn’t punishment. It's preparation. In this episode, Amber breaks down the difference between motion and movement, revealing how emotional numbing, busyness, and distraction keep you looping in resistance instead of growing through transformation. She walks you through the three stages of breakthrough: Separation, Stillness, and Surrender. This episode teaches you how to find peace, purpose, and endurance inside your own cocoon season.

📝If you’ve been scrolling through survival, this one will set you free.

• ​ Scripture References: 1 Peter 5:10, Romans 8:18, Romans 12:2, Jeremiah 12:5
• ​ Key Concepts:
• ​ Looping = emotional avoidance disguised as productivity
• ​ Motion vs. Movement: doing vs. becoming
• ​ The 3 Stages of Transformation → Separation, Stillness, Surrender
• ​ The Cocoon: struggle as strengthening
• ​ Pain as the training ground for power

💡Reflection Questions:

1. ​ What area of your life are you still avoiding pain instead of processing it?
2. ​ Are you in the ant stage (survival), cocoon stage (stillness), or butterfly stage (emergence)?
3. ​ What illusion or identity has God been asking you to surrender?

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