They make us laugh. They make us cringe. Sometimes they make us mad.
But what do Kim Burrell, Tamar Braxton, and Orlando Brown all have in common?

They’ve all been crowned “too much.”
Too dramatic. Too messy. Too unpredictable.
And yet… we can’t look away.

In this episode of Overthinking with Karmen, your Overthinker-in-Chief Karmen Michael Smith spirals into the performance of Black pain—on pulpits, on stages, on timelines—and asks:
What happens when the armor becomes the identity?

From the release of his new cinematic sermon What Survives the Fire, to conversations about persona, prophecy, and perception—Karmen reflects on what it costs to be seen, who gets grace, and who gets discarded.

This isn’t just about celebrity.
It’s about all of us.
And the lies we’ve learned to live out loud.

What do Gen Z’s “barebacking” trend, raw dogging flights, and the future of social media all have in common?
Spiral with me as we explore the quiet rebellion against distraction, the power of presence, and why the next revolution won’t be posted—it’ll be lived.

What do being unemployed, your cousin dropping out of high school, and feeling invisible all have in common?
Spiral with me as we unpack how capitalism confuses labor with worth, why the system ejects those who can’t conform, and why being pushed out might be the first step toward designing a life that’s actually yours.

What do the Met Gala, Janet Jackson’s Rhythm Nation, and Grandma’s house have in common?
Spiral with me as we explore how Black aesthetic has never just been about looking good—it’s been survival, sanctuary, and spiritual resistance in a world that never meant for us to thrive.

What do unemployment, Ryan Coogler, and your strange earthqukes have in common?
Spiral with me as we explore why real freedom feels terrifying at first, why unprecedented moves often get mistaken for mistakes, and why stepping into a life with no blueprint might just be the real revolution.

Why did Beyoncé pull her music off TikTok? Why are oxtails $40 a plate? And why are you giving away your family’s inheritance for free?
Spiral with me as we unpack how protecting your legacy—your creativity, your culture, your voice—isn’t gatekeeping. It’s survival. Generational wealth isn’t just about making money; it’s about knowing what’s worth keeping sacred.

What do job loss, noisy windows, Instagram fatigue, and skipping a yoga session with Black Q+ men have in common?
Spiral with me as we talk about what it means to design a life you're actually living, not performing, and why the ones who really want to find you… will.

What do a second date that never happened, Missy Elliott’s Coachella performance, and high costs have in common?

Spiral with me as we unpack the premium price we’re all paying for presence—how we spend big to be seen, but rarely show up for what matters. And why being rare isn’t the problem, but the world’s inability to value it just might be.