Thank you for tuning in every week to season 3 of The WinShape Marriage Podcast! We’ve loved having you with us virtually. As we officially wrap season 3, Marlee Arnold and Rob Philo walk through their eight favorite moments this season. They break down encouraging advice and marriage wisdom shared from many guests—Bob Goff, Ted Lowe, Dr. Juli Slattery, and more. Tune into this episode for a high-level highlight reel on what you might have missed. Then, you can catch up on all your favorite episodes, too. We will be back later this year for season 4. Stay tuned!

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Time Stamps:

(2:15) Bob Goff – I'm holding up a trampoline and saying, “Let’s go launch you.”

(5:22) Jeremy Marshall – I had to develop a liturgy of commute home that released everything I had been carrying through the day.

(10:31) Ted Lowe – A great marriage is made up of two people that say, “I just wish you could see you like I see you.”

(16:44) Eric Wooten – Validate now; truth later. Whoever brings a concern up to the other person first, their spouse’s only job at that moment is to validate the concern that’s been brought.

(27:31) The Robys – Lora wanted to fight, and I was ready to flight. That six-month cycle is where we grew in our marriage. We finally looked at each other in May. If we can make it through this, then we’ll make it through anything.

(32:59) Katie Bulmer – What is on the other side of fighting for a good marriage?

(44:52) Dr. Juli Slattery – About 90% of couples have a significant difference in their desire for “how often are we going to have sex” and “what do you enjoy in sex”—that's a normal barrier.

(55:19) Genee Francis – One thing that trips people up is expecting you of others.

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Links:

WinShape Marriage Website https://marriage.winshape.org/

WinShape Marriage Instagram https://www.instagram.com/winshapemarriage/

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Relevant Episodes:

Be a Trampoline in Your Marriage, Not a Mirror | Bob Goff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exYZYo0Yo3Q&t=6s

Answering Your Marriage Questions: 2026 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWkzDDEsOv0&t=528s

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Marriage | Ted Lowe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvodSZzRwq4&t=10s

What Does Healthy Conflict Look Like? | Eric Wooten https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsR7WxHUzdc&t=6s

A Marriage Story: The Robys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXYJcpoRH0Q&t=4s

Social Media Is Lying to You About Marriage | Katie Bulmer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61DHLhWLIgY&t=2054s

Answering your Questions About Sex | Dr. Juli Slattery https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9TislJ_9ie8&t=16s

The Truth Behind Marriage Expectations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRc-G7VGnRo&t=2s

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