Feeding children isn’t just about nutrition—it’s about navigating breastfeeding struggles, picky eaters, food allergies, and the endless debate over what’s “healthy enough.” Matthew, Mandy, and Pete are joined by special guest Mara Kaufman to explore the chaos and complexity of food decisions from infancy through adolescence, including the unexpected challenges that arise when your kid discovers Doritos.

What we discussed:

• How do parents navigate the breastfeeding versus formula decision when faced with unexpected challenges like tongue and lip ties?
• What strategies work (and don’t work) for dealing with picky eaters and food refusal?
• How do you balance nutrition ideals with the reality of kids who want nothing but chicken nuggets and mac and cheese?
• What’s the deal with school food allergies, and how have restrictions around peanut butter and other allergens changed the classroom dynamic?
• How do food struggles shift as kids become teenagers and gain more independence over their eating choices?

Additional topics:

• The comedy and reality of kids as “little food criminals” who share and trade despite strict school policies
• How grocery costs and privilege factor into conversations about “ideal” nutrition.

The TV show Matthew mentioned is called The Yard (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Yard_(2011_TV_series)) and is available on Amazon, but sadly now for a price.

When the power goes out mid-recording, the show must go on. We were half way through a recording session with Matthew, Mandy, and Mandy’s friend Megan, when Matthew’s power went out, taking all they had already recorded with it! But the show must go on, and Mandy and Megan continued their holiday conversation, diving into the realities of managing winter celebrations as a retail-owning parent, the mixed emotions around Santa, and how New Year's Eve evolves from disappointing bar nights to meaningful family traditions.

Questions We Explored

• How do you balance holiday excitement with preventing post-January 2nd crashes?
• When is the right time to stop lying about Santa, and how do kids handle the truth?
• Can Santa disappointment teach children important lessons about coping with unmet expectations?
• What's the strategy for managing presents across multiple holidays and generous relatives?
• How do New Year's traditions shift from young adult parties to family-centered celebrations?

Additional Topics

• The bookstore owner's fate: Working retail through the entire holiday season
• The great Elf debate: When one kid refuses to watch the family favorite
• Evolution of gift-giving: From big ticket items to experience-focused spending
• Hanukkah present strategies: Every night versus every other night
• The Top Chef New Year's competition and New Year's Day open house brunch tradition

Fresh off a trip to Italy with his three-month-old, Matthew is riding high on new-parent vindication: his baby slept through both transatlantic flights while chaos reigned around him. But Pete and Mandy are quick to remind him that the easy travel window is fleeting—and they've got the battle scars to prove it.

In this episode, the trio swaps stories from the parenting travel trenches: Mandy's solo flight where her toddler baptized her in apple juice, Pete's infamous Baby Bjorn blowout that left his spouse covered in diarrhea for an entire red-eye, and the critical lesson both stories teach (pack. extra. clothes.). They also dig into the logistics that actually matter—Delta's sky bassinet service, the art of traveling light with maximum redundancy, and how to accept help from the secret community of parents who recognize that desperate look in your eyes.

The conversation shifts to daycare transitions and the bittersweet process of learning to let go—from the anxiety of those first phone buzzes to the unexpected heartbreak of receiving an adorable video and wishing you were cuddling instead of working. Mandy shares a cautionary tale about a babysitter who took her joking "no fun tonight" instruction completely literally, leaving her son unable to play Batman.

And in a hopeful coda, Pete offers a glimpse of the future: traveling with adult children is genuinely wonderful. They carry things. They pay for stuff. They're just... friends on a trip. Something to look forward to, parents—even if 14 years feels like a long wait.

KEY TOPICS

• Matthew's Italy trip triumph: baby Penn sleeps through international flights
• The sky bassinet: Delta's bulkhead bassinet service for infants
• Mandy's juice-soaked solo flight with toddler Casey
• Pete's legendary diaper blowout / Baby Bjorn disaster
• The golden rule: always pack extra clothes (Matthew packed three changes for 24 hours)
• Navigating travel logistics with strollers, wheelchairs, and baby gear
• The daycare transition: learning to trust and let go
• When babysitters take instructions too literally
• Traveling with only children: Mandy's solution of bringing Casey's best friend
• The promised land: traveling with adult children