This week I'm challenging us all to stop making life about being right and start making it about being loved and being loving.

I believe the real issues we face are all found in the nuclear core of the power of love activated inside us. But too often, we've let our culture devolve into division and fighting. I’m inspired by one of my favorite authors, Felicia Murrell, who writes:

“I think the broad sweeping generalizations on both sides are killing us all... As a society, we’ve made life about being right instead of being loved.”

We have all suffered from love deprivations—deficiencies of love that we’ve accommodated as normal. It leads to fighting, resentment, and a relentless need to prove a point.

But as Presiding Bishop Michael Curry says, this love thing is not owned or controlled by anyone: The source is God. No one votes it in or out.

I'm calling on you to join me in the relentless pursuit of love.

• Confront your deprivations and recognize where love has been withheld.

• Practice the Love's Creed to keep love on your daily to-do list.

• Be courageous and disrupt the awkwardness by saying the three most holy words: I love you.

Let’s turn this anxious ship around, folks! It's going to take all of us to change the world, one breath and one act of love at a time.

Are you ready to join me and make the U-turn: stopping the fight to be right and starting the work of being loved?

I'm diving deep into my life’s purpose today: Preach Love hotter than any religious flame. Live Love more outrageous than any political rage. Lift Love higher than the heavens and deeper than any hell.

This is a direct challenge to the noise in our world.

• Preach Love Hotter: Don't let rigid doctrines or religious passion overshadow the fierce, pure fire of love. We shouldn't be preaching hellfire; we should be preaching a love that burns with the flames of heaven's beauty. I walk you through the Lord's Prayer and my Love's Creed to help you keep love as the one true target.

• Live Love More Outrageous: When faith and political rage mix, the result pushes people away. I’m telling you: you can’t serve two masters. Stop letting political fury set your agenda. We are called to be outrageous lovers showing a radical love for our enemies, our neighbors, and those on the "other side." This love must be more extreme than any rage you see.

• Lift Love Higher and Deeper: Heaven and hell are not just things to worry about when you die; they are realities we live now. The key to eternal life is letting go of the selfish hell that is eating you alive. As I always say, where you're going is where you are. I believe there is no hell so deep that the love of God cannot reach it.

This isn't about signing a card; it’s about a life you choose to live. Give up what's choking you be it wealth, hate, or rage and come live love higher than the heavens and deeper than any hell.

Take this challenge: Today, risk saying the three most holy words to someone: I love you. It's a risk that will change you.

I'm Bishop Randy Dean, your No BS Bishop.

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Live It Now

I'm sharing the message I recently delivered live at Chain of Lakes Church in Blaine, MN. We need to talk about Love in a Time of Crisis.

Every one of us is either in a crisis, coming out of one, or heading into another. And the Church? We've lost our focus.

Jesus gave us just one commandment to define us: Love one another. But we've replaced that heavy lifting with political squabbles and the sickness of codependency—trying to fix, manage, and control others instead of simply loving.

I get personal this week, discussing my own journey as a spiritual refugee and what I learned from a childhood riddled with crisis.

This isn't just bumper-sticker love. It's a call to action. I break down how we can rescue love from silly sentiment, making it our safe place and a transcendent target above all the constant rage and existential dread in the world.

Join me for this powerful special edition and take ownership of Love's Creed. It's time to be known as the people who love like crazy.

Welcome, beautiful people! I'm Bishop Randy Dean, and this week, I'm getting personal. I'm tackling The Church—not just a single denomination, but the entire body of believers. Why? Because I believe we've gotten ourselves tangled up in too much BS (Bait and Switch).

Jesus gave us one, clear, essential commandment: Love one another as I have loved you. That's the epic call of Christ to us, The Church. But honestly? We've been distracted. We've focused on political agendas, trying to pass laws, and admiring our glorious architecture instead of investing in the architecture of love itself.

My challenge to you—and to myself—is this: We must get back to the heavy lifting of Love.

We need to stop using "truth" as a weapon and start speaking the truth in love through empathy and incarnation. We need to ask ourselves: How can we make Love our daily practicum? How can we preach love hotter than any religious flame and live love more outrageous than any political rage?

I'm telling you, it's time we heal our intimacy issues and have the courage to say those three most holy, charmed words to the world without caveat: I love you.

Join me this week. Let's make this quality the single, defining mark that shows the world we are, indeed, The Church. God bless you and happy trails!

I'm Bishop Randy Dean, the No BS Bishop, and I'm Alive to Love. I believe anything less is potential BS (Bait and Switch), and for six years, I've been calling you upward and onward to a life of Love alone.

In this episode, I lay out my most important challenge: the courage to say the three most holy, charmed, and magical words in the human language: "I love you." We're living in a time of suffocating tribalism, chaos, and confusion, where we act as if we're alive to hate and throw emotional grenades. That ain't life! Love is our treasure, the hard work we must do.

I share personal stories of being love-starved and emphasize that this simple act is a constructive stand—a way to step aside from the vitriol and build genuine human connection. I challenge you to put down the phone, make eye contact, and stop treating love like a quick "Love ya" or a Post-it note.

We're going deep on why we have such a profound fear of intimacy that makes those three words so awkward, and why "the greatest mistake we make in life is thinking we still have time." Join my Love Revolution and learn to activate the power of love in every room you enter, because ugly is getting done to death, and it's time for the people of beauty to do something beautiful.

I'm utterly convinced that love has been short sheeted and treated like a comic book version of life, when in reality, love should be seen as an Encyclopedia Britannica. Love demands of me and from me the truth beyond my personal bias because love cares more about what is right rather than who is right.

Here's the truth: you have an ego, I have an ego. The ego is like a psychological eardrum; if it's been beat up and bruised, it translates incoming information in a faulty way. If you're constantly on a crusade to prove others wrong, your ego is expressing its deep woundedness.

I am proposing to you that love is your ego aid—it's the freedom from that damage and a clear vision of your truest value. Let's get some love on our egos, all around us and in us, so that we're finally able to feed others with that same nutritional value.

The biggest mistake we all make is thinking we have more time. Let's all of us be done with BS and be filled with love! Go out there, be strong, be kind, be beautiful. Be a lover, and be it right now.

In this episode, I’m talking about a direct and commanding message that Jesus gave, a message of warning: "Woe to you." But I'm challenging us to stop pointing that finger outward at religious leaders and at others. Instead, I want us to turn that scrutiny inward.

When you squeeze a lemon, you get lemon juice. When the squeeze is on in your life, you get what’s on the inside. So what's in you? What dwells in the hidden hallways of your heart?

Join me as I encourage us to look within, not for self-condemnation, but for a great exchange: to cleanse our inner world so that what comes out is love, not misery or filth. I’m here to live for love alone, and I want you to be that beautiful person who lets love shine in an ugly world.

I’m inviting you to breathe slow and live love in an age of violence. In this episode I talk about how “your inner world will eventually become your outer world,” why “hate is murder,” and how we can guard our souls from the bloody scenes that surround us.

I remind you that “love and tolerance is our code,” and call you to “drop seeds of beauty” in a world where ugly is getting done to death. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you still have time—love more, love now, and be the people of beauty.